Girl friend is obsessed with her clit?

I don't think she should worry about her activity, and maybe it will calm down after a time. However I think there is more to what she is doing than just a natural activity. To be able to give advice I would need to find out a bit more. It would be much better to talk to her directly rather than going through an 'intermediary'. Would you ask her to sign in and communicate personally, please?

One worrying thing is why you were going through her phone, particularly looking at her searches. You might go someway to redeem yourself by getting her to sign in for direct help confidentially.

I told her what you said but she said she is too embarrassed to speak to anyone about it.

She only just managed to find the courage to talk to me, and we share everything.

I just told her and she said she doesn't want to do that..

She told me you could post here and speak to me on her behalf about it

Ok. I don't mind doing that. I don't want to make her uncomfortable. I just want to help. It's just that talking through an intermediary sometimes is more difficult. Also, I realise she is embarrassed, so talking in private might ease her mind. But you can write what she tells you to and I'll do my best to help. You could sign in if it helps.

So, to start things going, a few questions.

1. Where does she "keep doing it"? At home? In public?
2. What causes her to do it? Is it just an urge? a feeling? a habit?
3. Why does she hate it?
4. Why does she not want to do it? Are there any background/historical implications?
5. Why did she start this habit?
6. What do you think about it?

I would urge her not to worry unduly about it if she can help it. She is not a freak or mad or disturbed, but is something she needs to talk out. I hope I can help

Okay thank you for helping

1. At home

2. Just a habit, feels comfy

3. Makes her feel embarassed and ashamed of her self

4. She just doesnt want to, she feels like its not normal

5. At around 17 years old

6. I dont really think much of it, it just seemed abit strange to me that she never mentioned it espcially since we have a very healthy sex life

Thank you!

1. At home is fine. No problem.
2. It is relaxing. It releases oxytocins. But what generates the desire? Sexual arousal? boredom?
3. No need to be embarrassed. Nothing to be ashamed of.
4. Does she still not want to do it? There's nothing abnormal about it, although it is more than average. Is her clit bigger than average?
5. So what led to her starting at 17? What was the trigger factor?
6. That's probably why she didn't mention it. She didn't want you to feel there was something wrong with the relationship. Indeed, there probably isn't. She sounds like a delightful young lady.

Hope this helps as a start.