He's gay honey
Come see who
I'm really grateful to have found this thread. My husband is having the same problem.
I was out of commission for two YEARS after I broke my back in a car accident. He was awesome and I wouldn't have survived without him.
We've started to get back into the swing of things slowly and it's wonderful, but he's going soft right before he ejaculates. This is really terrible because when *I* have an orgasm, that usually sets him off so I'm trying to be silent not to let him know or else everything instantly stops right as I'm going. And the more aroused and wet I am, the worse the problem.
I was taking it personally. Very personally. I took it that my orgasm was a turn-off to him. That my arousal disgusted him. That made me back away and compounded the issue.
Now I think that I'm starting to get it. He had to resort to masturbation while his wife was broken for a very long time. Now he's used to that. Throw in high blood pressure and that'll throw things off.
When I give him a ha****b, he still does it. It's so odd to me that a man can cum with a completely flaccid penis.
We'll talk. Get him to a doctor to get the BP under control.
Thank you all for the candid discussion. You just mended my broken heart. Now I can talk to my husband with compassion and we can work on this as a couple.
I was out of commission for two YEARS after I broke my back in a car accident. He was awesome and I wouldn't have survived without him.
We've started to get back into the swing of things slowly and it's wonderful, but he's going soft right before he ejaculates. This is really terrible because when *I* have an orgasm, that usually sets him off so I'm trying to be silent not to let him know or else everything instantly stops right as I'm going. And the more aroused and wet I am, the worse the problem.
I was taking it personally. Very personally. I took it that my orgasm was a turn-off to him. That my arousal disgusted him. That made me back away and compounded the issue.
Now I think that I'm starting to get it. He had to resort to masturbation while his wife was broken for a very long time. Now he's used to that. Throw in high blood pressure and that'll throw things off.
When I give him a ha****b, he still does it. It's so odd to me that a man can cum with a completely flaccid penis.
We'll talk. Get him to a doctor to get the BP under control.
Thank you all for the candid discussion. You just mended my broken heart. Now I can talk to my husband with compassion and we can work on this as a couple.
Smoking causes erectile dysfunction among teens. I need to stop to brogod
He's gay, I'm sorry
What happened with that ? Same problem happened yesterday
Ok so now I am 30km away from her, how is that supposed to help?
That's crazy! That's exactly what my girl did when I had this problem. Works great! Isn't a fix all, but it works at least 90% of the time!
HBP medications play havoc with male sexual perfomance
I'm having the same issue also. I think its dopeamine levels maybe.... He says it feels almost like he already got off, but hasnt...
I am 65 and this is starting to happen to me also. Am I loosing interest? It is super frustrating!! I feel like I wanna R.I.P. my hair out and turn the sofa over. I take Paxil and Suboxone. I know this is a major cause but when I have sex before I take my meds, the orgasm is just release and that is not what I was looking for. Although I do need it twice a week( at least) for my prostate health.
Why do I get soft before I have sex, or when I have sex I get soft like in a minute?
I have a problem when I am having a erection an in a blow job it stays hard then with in 6 minutes it goes soft what is the problem then I get depressed
(No more masturbation and Run 1km every day/ Leg workouts) This is one of the best suggestions I've seen so far along with the guy that suggested running 1km every day, doing leg workouts help produce Testosterone which increases your sex drive. I'll try both of these and come back with the results.
No more masturbation and Run 1km every day/ Leg workouts. Totally agree with you. And it will solve problem for the most men here.