The administrator restricted me from posting an email address. We are basically forced to use this forum... I have placed a lot of my thoughts in this forum, and I do have to agree that keeping these things public does have a benefit for those who doesn't want to state their questions.
BTW - My wife is pregnant with our first. She is due in 3 months, we are both very excited!
congrats i am interested in this road and want to know how you can help me
I want to say to you that you can find a woman who would love you even if you have feelings for men or have stronger feelings for men or whatever. I am one of those women. I swear it that as long as you are honest, and share yourself fully, honestly, with her (the mother of your children) you should be able to find an open and warm person who is looking for you, and there might be a woman looking for exactly who you are, maybe she wants an open relationship, or wants to be married with children but herself isn't strongly sexual either way. or is but admires and loves you for being open and honest about your sexual identity. For whatever reason there is a woman out there who would love to love you. I would not hesitate for one second to have a marriage with someone that feels exactly as you do, as long as he loved me and we were good to each other. Don't have any fear. Have faith and believe in yourself.
Hey man would love to know your secret. Thanks man.
Hi, I have shared everything in these posts and responded to a lot of others who share their stories. Please make the trouble to read though them and if you do not undertstand any of the points that I try to make feel free to ask.
My first born baby is coming next week! We are very excited.
it s possible , it s like quit smoking ,it s not easy, but first get away from gay porn and.friends, do a self meditation of what u want because that what u gonna be , ...u ll still hav somestemptetions but as u keep on u will, find ur interest in girls, before it was hard for me to get erected for a girl but now ....wooo... i m free,...for those who say u r gay and u can't change :i m their wrong proof, it s like telling a handicapped there s no chance u for to walk , if u don't want to be straight dont trap others in it
How can i contact all of you? Please i really need help bros.
I mean REALLY.. HAHA thanks
^okay this is my story..i knew that im bisexual way back like when im 6 or 7 years old..the case is like im attracted to both sexes, more physical to male but more emotional to female..in highschool i had a girlfriend once and i do liked PLENTY OF GIRLS because they're beautiful and have attractive behaviors and i secretly like guys... I tried to hide it for coz its a shame in our country philippines..but
recently i just realized that i WANT to live a different life and try to BE NORMAL..like a NORMAL STRAIGHT GUY SHOULD BE..playing sports..having plenty of guy friends to hang out with...and BEST BUDDIES to cheer me up or just be there when im lonely or in need( i envy some of my friends who r like this really)... A wife that cares and.love you for all of who u are ;) ...children that u'll guide to be a BETTER PERSON than what you became..
But then suddenly i bumped in this homo film in the internet and i cant help but watch it....AND IT RUINED MY PLANS!!! Idk why its just that im very related to this movie hawaii 2013 and almost cried at the end because the situation somehow embodies my childhood... So now again im LOST in this world ;-( still hoping for something to really happen miraculously.........................
(I REALLY2x HATE I BECAME BISEXUAL!!!!!!!!!!!! ;-(
Want to become a normal.guy that GOD created....immediately!!
And i think having friends like you..here and there trying to support each other even through email..might be a really good start... Good day and Take care bros.
What's your email adress? can you gave it to me?
I really liked your reply and I want to talk to you. How can I contact you? You can solve the mystery of my life.
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I know you wrote this over a year ago, but after reading your post, it almost feels like you have the same thought process as me and you're going through exactly what I'm going through. My story is very similar, I'm 24, I'm extremely hard working, studied very hard in school, work very hard and have absolutely no problem working late at work, in fact, prefer to work the long hours because I sort of treat my work as my spouse as weird as that sounds. But, I too, feel sort of stuck. At my work place, people wear suits and dresses during work hours and sleep with each other after work hours - or at least that's how it seems to me. A few people have raised eyebrows because I'm fit, decent looking, girls have made moves to sleep with me, yet I have not slept with anyone. Long story short, I've decided to address all my problems this year, I'm going to 1) see a therapist to address past issues and how these feelings came about and 2) I've always been religious, I'm going to commit my life to Christ again and I'm going to leave it up to God. I would love to hear if you have any advice.
Best,
Your post is truly amazing and your testimony is proof that God can change your heart. I'm a Christian myself, and I love Jesus although I have fallen from the wagon many times. I've been struggling with homosexual feelings for most of my life. A while ago I decided that maybe I should embrace who I am, or who I think I am, but after a few months I realized that living a homosexual life and being Christian is not compatible, and that while God loves the sinner, he hates the sin and I had to choose one. I have chosen God, and it's a real battle, a lonely one too, but I know it's going to be worth it at the end when I meet the right girl. To be honest, I've never been attracted to females and it's frightening, but if God has created me to be celibate for the rest of my life, then so be it. Besides the Bible and the book you mentioned, did you do anything else to overcome those feelings (i.e. Christian therapy, counseling, other books)? Thanks in advance. Oh, and I hope she said yes (to the marriage proposal).
I know you wrote this post over a year ago, and I just discovered this site, and wow, you were/are going through what I'm going through. I, too, am Christian, and I've been struggling with homosexual feelings all my life. I don't really have friends because all guys really talk about somehow involves sex, and hooking up with someone and I can't relate to that. I don't want to be friends with girls because then either they're attracted to me and want to hook up with me or girls just don't want to be friends with guys that they think are straight and attractive. So, I have been labeled anti-social too and I too feel very lonely. I've decided to fight and I leave it up to God and I know he will guide me to the right place. Would love to hear from you!
hats off to you.......
Hello Vijay.
This is a very complicated topic. I have good news for you if you are open minded and can understand all I say then you will be able to find an answer that makes sense and that relieves you of the mental torments many of us suffer because we have a misunderstanding of the facts.
I am 60. I believe that Jesus is the Savior who The Creator-God sent to the world to solve the problem that we humans are each of us and all of us together separated from The Creator-God. It is called sin. This is mis understood by religions including many who tjink they are real Christians but are confused by the Common human idea in all religions that there is something we humans must do so we will stop 'Sinning' (doing things wrong.)
Wanting to be gay and being gay is wrong. Wanting to be straight and being straight is also just as wrong. They are both wrong.
There is a third way which i will explain a little later.
Sin really means that we himans are each separated from God. And all of us together are separated from God. It is the condition we are in as a result of what Adam did at the beginning of the human race. I do not know what your religion is. But i do know this. I know that if you speak out loud in your language and say Dear God plesse teach me your truth and help me to understand it. Amen. Or dincere prayer like to that. I know Jesus who is very real will send you help with this issue. In fact I imagine you have said that and this issue is one you really are asking God to help you with. I suggest you go a step further and say out loud dear Jesus please save me. Be my Savior and help me to know and understand you and your truth. Kindness and Agape (Godly) love. Let it help me and heal me and end the separation that exists between you oh creator-God and me Vijay. Fill me with your Holy Spirit and help me to see life as you see it Creator-God and The Savior Jesus. Amen. Thank you Jesus for dying on thr cross for me to solve the whole problem caused by what caused us himans and me vijay to become separated from you and broken. Even when i know what is right i find another desire in me to do what is wrong instead of what i realize is right. Then sometimes i do not know that things i want to do are wrong. It seems that i can not do what is right. So then i have a problem i do not understand. A problem.that seems unsolvable.
Jesus please help me with this and solve this for me. Amen.
Vijay our ancestor Adam was created so God could have friendship and fellowship with Adam. God would provide all Adams needs and desires and Adam would have great enjoyment from all God would do to give a full and completly satisfying happiness to Adam. God even gave Adam purpose. A reason for being and activities so Adam would not be Bored by life.
Adam had his relationship with God through Jesus. All things that were created by God were created by God through Jesus. Jesus was never Created but all things that were created were created by The Creator-God througb Jesus as The Creator-God spoke. Jesus is called the Word of God. Jesuz is called The Tree Of Life. He is the Tree of Life in The Garden of Eden. Of that Tree Adam was allowed to eat. It is how the breath of life breathed into Adam by God when Adam.became s living Soul was kept alive i. Adam. Jesus is the go between that keeps them from being separated from one another.
I am saying a lot and i hope you read it several times and ask God out loud soeaking into the air and do it often till you get the underdstanding of it. There really is God. We humans were separated from God long Ago when Adam was fooled to tjink satan (the Devil) satan.means God's enemy and the enemy of those humans who do not want to be separated from God. Those who want to be saved or rescued from being separated from God. Dear Jesus please save me. Be the solution for me of whatever separates me from The Creator-God and You Jesus who participated in my creation. Help me to jnderstand this. Heal me and deliver me. Fill me with your Peace and Joy and help me to realize your Truth and underestand all of this. Amen.
Vijay i.have more to tell you. I will explain it to you. But in a next post. I'm using my cell phone and its easy for me to lose all these words. I'm senfing it now. God is real snd all you need to do is sincerely ask God. God can ecplain it to your mind directly. Sometomes it helps for another person to ecplain it.
I have fone this before with others so i know or realize what is happening to you and in your life. We are going to help you understand it so you can be relieved of this burden. I jope also others will be helped sldo.
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