Alright, well i've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we've gotten into oral sex. She has no problem pleasing me, but i want to repay her with as good of orgasms. The only problem is, when ever i go down there whether its with mouth or fingers( she will respond with little body movements when it feels good) she doesn't really give me any feed back on what i could do better. how can i improve our sexual encounters.
Note: whenever we have the encounters, they are late at night. Could that be a problem? please help
Note: whenever we have the encounters, they are late at night. Could that be a problem? please help
did i just post a reply to this questio non a different thread?
To summarize: communicate. ask her to tell u what she likes. ask her to direct you. if anything say it turns u own when ur told what to do (if u dn't feel comfortable flast out asking).
just a thought ;-D
good lluck
To summarize: communicate. ask her to tell u what she likes. ask her to direct you. if anything say it turns u own when ur told what to do (if u dn't feel comfortable flast out asking).
just a thought ;-D
good lluck
You can ask her, but I'm sure you've already tried that. Most women won't give you advice, either because they are too embarrassed or because they honestly don't know.
Does she want oral sex? Ask her. If she acts lukewarm about it, don't go there. Let her go at her own pace. Some women aren't comfortable with oral sex, or with having so much attention placed on their orgasms. I know you want to please her...so do as she wants, even if that means not giving her oral sex.
If you do go there: Give her a massage first. Appreciate her body. Help her feel comfortable. Start gently. The clittoris is much more sensitive than the penis. Anything too rough will cause pain, not pleasure. Listen and watch her face for guidance.
Does she want oral sex? Ask her. If she acts lukewarm about it, don't go there. Let her go at her own pace. Some women aren't comfortable with oral sex, or with having so much attention placed on their orgasms. I know you want to please her...so do as she wants, even if that means not giving her oral sex.
If you do go there: Give her a massage first. Appreciate her body. Help her feel comfortable. Start gently. The clittoris is much more sensitive than the penis. Anything too rough will cause pain, not pleasure. Listen and watch her face for guidance.
it can be difficult to give a woman an orgasm, some women take a long time some are quicker,
stimulation of the clitoris is usually necessary, either orally or with finger, she needs to be well lubricated so that it is not uncomfortable for her.
also sucking her nipples can provide additional stimulation, after rubbing clitoris and sucking nipples for around 5 to 10 minutes, she may start to thrust her hips involuntarily, this means she is sufficienlty sexually aroused and will soon reach her climax, she will need steady stimulation of her clitoris , until she has several contractions of her vaginal muscles maybe 5 or six or more, this is her orgasm, dont touch her clitoris anymore cos it will be too sensitive for a while, she will calm down after and feel more relaxed.
stimulation of the clitoris is usually necessary, either orally or with finger, she needs to be well lubricated so that it is not uncomfortable for her.
also sucking her nipples can provide additional stimulation, after rubbing clitoris and sucking nipples for around 5 to 10 minutes, she may start to thrust her hips involuntarily, this means she is sufficienlty sexually aroused and will soon reach her climax, she will need steady stimulation of her clitoris , until she has several contractions of her vaginal muscles maybe 5 or six or more, this is her orgasm, dont touch her clitoris anymore cos it will be too sensitive for a while, she will calm down after and feel more relaxed.