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my boyfriend and i made love on aug21...and ii started spotting the next day..but my cycle was supposed to come that day,but instead the spotting was on and off for about 2 1/2 days...then my cycle actually showed up 5
days late. I have had terrible headaches cramps breast tenderness dizzines for the last 3wks.! Also, i have been eating more and getting very hungry alot lately and i am exhausted all the time. I had an unsual cold, flu symptoms,and diarrhea during this time. Now my cycle is supposed to come by the 15th...although it should've been today but it came late last month..I have taken two tests and they both came back negative...then i started cramping in the middle of intercourse recently.!Can someone help?
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The obvious...I had sex unprotected with my partner
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i disagree with abortion also
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we got entirely to caught up into the moment, we were undressed and just simply grinding on one another, touching kissing, pulling... biting when he had gotten just a little to worked up and came before any penetration had taken place. it managed to get on me, and with out hesitation i washed it away moments after. ironically we had a condom sitting next to us awaiting to be used that night. for some odd reason, it made me stop and say "i think im pregnant" that very night, but i didnt allow myself to get worked up over it. i went back and counted my days, and im always one to have a regular period, so according to my calculation that was my most fertile window. i must have conceived that baby that night.
8 days after my missed period i worked up the courage to take two clear blue pregnancy test that my bf bought for me. i got two positives. it seemed so unreal, to think that their had been no penetration, yet there lie a positive pregnancy test in front of me. him and i discussed our options, we contemplated it all abortion, adoption, keeping it. we had numbers and addresses to get the job done. but something... made us stop and think. we cried together, we were stuck. but when it came time to say "abortion" the words refused to slip off our tongues, curiosity stopped us. curiosity to what that child may grow up to look and sound like, or who he or she might be.
i heard the first heartbeat at almost 7 weeks... then around 13 weeks i felt it move for the very first time. now im a few days short of 5 months and i just cant believe ive made it this far.

if it wasnt plannes, or your young... your most likely going to want to run and hide in hopes that it will gradually go away on its own. but its nothing you can hide from now should you. i dont recommend abortion. but you have to do what you have to do. just be smart if you know ur not ready for parenthood. its so easy to get pregnant....
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