Why is everyone trying to be this girls momma? Obviously you live in a sheltered world where everyone is polite and no one sins...no one sins?! She came here for help and some of you women are acting like immature infants, instead of criticizing and preaching about how she should not have gotten herself into this situation maybe a little understanding is in order! Throwing stones does not help people, these comments should be kept to yourself. She is looking for help in a troubled time so i say give her HELPFUL advice and stop with the downing her, she has enough to deal with now!
P.S. 14 YEAR OLDS DO HAVE SEX JUST IN CASE U HAVE LIVED UNDER A ROCK THE PAST 20+ YEARS
P.S. 14 YEAR OLDS DO HAVE SEX JUST IN CASE U HAVE LIVED UNDER A ROCK THE PAST 20+ YEARS
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I was 14 when I got pregnant and it's okay to tell your parents. It's really nothing that they can do now. If they love you they will support you 100% with your mistake. Don't stress because it's not good for you or your baby. Everything will be okay. I'm 25 now and my daughter is 10 and she is well taken care of. It's hard at first but give it a little time.
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dont have an abortion 14 or not u are so lucky to have been given this little gift, care fairy or watever she calls herself is a very evil human being and almost advertising an ebortion to u ,i dont think she is even worthey of listing to so dont!
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I THINK THAT PEOPLE ARE TO QUICK TO JUDGE. I MY SELF DO NOT BELIEVE IN ABORTION AND WOULD NOT RECOMMEND YOU DOING THAT BUT EVERYONE HAS THEIR DAY IN THE END, GOD IS THE ONLY ONE THAT JUDGES. AND FOR WHATEVER REASONS WE HAVE FOR DOING WHAT WE DO, ONLY GOD CAN BE THE ONE TO DECIDE OUR FAITH. IT IS TRUE YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN A GIFT AND AT SUCH A VERY YOUNG AGE.
I'M 25 YRS OLD AND AM TRYING TO GET PREGNANT, BUT AM UNABLE TO FOR WHATEVER REASON, MAYBE ITS NOT MY TIME. I HAVE HAD A MISCARRIAGE AND THAT WAS ENOUGH FOR ME, BUT TO HAVE AN ABORTION, WELL YOU'LL HAVE THAT "WHAT IF" OR "I WONDER" SO THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU LITTLE ONE AND GOD BLESS YOU!!!!
I'M 25 YRS OLD AND AM TRYING TO GET PREGNANT, BUT AM UNABLE TO FOR WHATEVER REASON, MAYBE ITS NOT MY TIME. I HAVE HAD A MISCARRIAGE AND THAT WAS ENOUGH FOR ME, BUT TO HAVE AN ABORTION, WELL YOU'LL HAVE THAT "WHAT IF" OR "I WONDER" SO THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU LITTLE ONE AND GOD BLESS YOU!!!!
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I was twelve when I got pregnant and thirteen when I had him.I was scared at first didn't know what to do so called up my best friend went and spent the weekend with her to talk about it.The night I had to go home my parents told her they thought I was pregnant and when she told me I told my mom and not my dad.I went and talked to my boyfriends mom she took me to the Hope center to take a pregnancy test I was nine weeks & four days.Told my mom if my dad layed one hand on me I would run away.everything was fine until I was five months then me and my dad got in a fight and I ran away I came back until two weeks ago.We got in another fight and he said I would never see my baby again so I moved in with one of my friends and know we are fighting for custody.
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I am very nervous, because I am supposed to have my period on yesterday but it still haven't came, I did have unprotected sex on the 22nd, I am experiencing cramping and then vaginal discharge as if my period is starting but it really isn't.
Can anyone give me advice on this>?
Can anyone give me advice on this>?
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amz wrote:
WELL I THINK THAT YOU SHOULDNT BE SCARED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS. LIKE OTHER PEOPLE HAVE TOLD YOU IF THE LOVE YOU THEY WILL SUPPORT YOU 100%. PLEASE DONT HAVE AN ABORTION THIS LADY THAT WROTE THIS STUFF ABOVE ME IS CRAZY TRYING TO GIVE YOU THE AMOUNT OF HOW MUCH AN ABORTION COSTS. YOU SHOULD HAVE THAT BABY AND IF YOUR PARENTS OR EVEN YOU, IF YOU THINK YOU CANT HANDLE THE PRESSURE THEN YOU SHOULD GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION FOR A FAMILY THAT IS TRYING AND ARE NOT ABLE TO HAVE KIDS OF THEIR OWN. THIS LADY ABOVE ME IS NUTS DONT LISTEN TO HER. GOD BLESS AND I HOPE YOU FIGURE THIS OUT.
kayla wrote:
Carifairy wrote:
I had an abortion at 20 because I felt I was too young to have baby..
AT 14 YOU HAVE NO health insurance on yourself, and no money.. You have to think what is best for the baby, is it best to have a baby with no money and no college? That is up to you to decide.
BUT YOU DO NOT NEED Parental consent for an abortion. If you need anymore info let me know....
BUT it may be a good idea to tell someone you trust. BECAUSE PRENATAL CARE IS EXPENSIVE, AND abortion is 375$
DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTIAN, that is murder,and is hard on your body. if you do not want to or feel you are to young to take care of the kid give it up for adoptian, give it a chance.
dont have an abortion 14 or not u are so lucky to have been given this little gift, care fairy or watever she calls herself is a very evil human being and almost advertising an ebortion to u ,i dont think she is even worthey of listing to so dont!
WELL I THINK THAT YOU SHOULDNT BE SCARED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS. LIKE OTHER PEOPLE HAVE TOLD YOU IF THE LOVE YOU THEY WILL SUPPORT YOU 100%. PLEASE DONT HAVE AN ABORTION THIS LADY THAT WROTE THIS STUFF ABOVE ME IS CRAZY TRYING TO GIVE YOU THE AMOUNT OF HOW MUCH AN ABORTION COSTS. YOU SHOULD HAVE THAT BABY AND IF YOUR PARENTS OR EVEN YOU, IF YOU THINK YOU CANT HANDLE THE PRESSURE THEN YOU SHOULD GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION FOR A FAMILY THAT IS TRYING AND ARE NOT ABLE TO HAVE KIDS OF THEIR OWN. THIS LADY ABOVE ME IS NUTS DONT LISTEN TO HER. GOD BLESS AND I HOPE YOU FIGURE THIS OUT.
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hi, i was fourteen when i had my first child but did'nt let that destroy my life neither my education. but now im graduating at my high school with a 3.98 honor roll student. the baby i had did'nt have me lost focus , didnt regret having her either. now she's three smart , intelligent baby girl im proud of her.now me n her father are still together. me and him been through hard times and worst times and still together. that's why it's good to learn from your mistakes. im not telling you what to do but just remember talk to both of your parentsfor them to understand what as happen to you draw an relationship with them i sure you be happy after all those secrets you've hide will be release. : ;-)
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My sister was 13 when she found out she was pregnant and she didnt tell anyone until she was 6 months pregnant. She had my niece when she was 14 and my mom was disappointed yes, but she accepted it. My sister didnt finish school, but she has no regrets. She takes care of her daughter who is now 8 and in the third grade. She made the decision to keep her baby...some people cant do that, but you need to make that decision no one else can do that for you.
I was 17 when i found out i was pregnant with my son and although i should have waited, I had to face up to my responsibilities, he is now 18 months old, he has asthma, and his dad could care less about him. Im not trying to scare anyone but, being a single teenage mom isnt easy, dont get me wrong everything i do i do for my son. I work 40-65 hrs a week, he is in daycare and he is sick alot. But i think of him as a gift.
I know that some are afraid to tell there parents but the fact is, they will find out eventually, Tell them soon and tell them the truth. You need to take care of you and you need to take care of the baby. If you decide to get an abortion of put the baby up for adoption, seek counseling. Learn to deal with your decision. Only you can make that decision!
I was 17 when i found out i was pregnant with my son and although i should have waited, I had to face up to my responsibilities, he is now 18 months old, he has asthma, and his dad could care less about him. Im not trying to scare anyone but, being a single teenage mom isnt easy, dont get me wrong everything i do i do for my son. I work 40-65 hrs a week, he is in daycare and he is sick alot. But i think of him as a gift.
I know that some are afraid to tell there parents but the fact is, they will find out eventually, Tell them soon and tell them the truth. You need to take care of you and you need to take care of the baby. If you decide to get an abortion of put the baby up for adoption, seek counseling. Learn to deal with your decision. Only you can make that decision!
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like they said your probally to young but you do what you wnat but really maybe you should try telling your parents i bet hey'll be supportive they probaly will be kmad but the ycool down!
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i was 15 wen i first got pregnent and i had an abortion without telling any one it was the worse descion ive ever made u wont relise till its to late just how it actually feels. im 16 now and pregnet again i told my perants this time and i wish i told them before because they are being so supportive i no you may not think it but ur mom and dad love u and they will do wateva it takes to help. hope this helps.
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My only advice is to believe in yourself. What does your heart tell you? Do whatever it takes to follow your instinct. Do not let other people sway you in your decision, but do listen to people so that you make a sound decision. Write down your thoughts to keep a clear head. Do not make a decision based on the way you feel in one day, but how you feel over several days. WRITE WRITE WRITE! You are the only one who knows what you should do. Listen to other people's advice and consdier them in your decision making. Talk to young women with children. I volunteer mentoring a teen mother and understand the difficulties and the joys. I also know a person who had a child at 14. She is really successful now, but she did go through a lot of hardship. What kinds of support can you take advantage of? Get informed. Asking for advice is a great step in this process...well done for asking the first question. Think of making your decison as different steps in the process. What other questions do you have? What other informatio should you get? Create a roadmap suitable to your situation.
All the best
All the best
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You have to tell your parents soon. You need help. They may be mad at first, but they love you so they will support you. Having a baby means making huge transitions in your life and at 14 you are not ready to face that alone. You need emotional support. And if you keep the baby you will need help raising it. My guess is the father won't stick around at such a young age. Knowing you are pregnant can be a scary thing, especially at your age, but you can do this with the help of people who love you. Don't be afraid. Everything will turn out ok. Just have faith.
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abortion is murder tell your parents i was 11 wen i got pregnant im 15 now, i was raped they were there for me so tell some1 you trust cus if you dont they will find out somehow so just tell them
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I know it is hard to believe about being pregnant. But I know you didnt ask to get pregant nor did the baby asked to be killed. Give it a chance at life. My best friend did get one and now she regrets it alot, she thinks about what they child would have been. I know if my daughter came to me and told she was pregnant I would support her in her choice other than killing it. If your give it up you still have a chance at life and so does the baby. They are soooooooo many single couples that want babys but cant have them. Iam only 23 I have a 3 year old daughter she is my world and never take her back and manage to take care of her and have a job. Childern bring so much joy to someone who doesnt have family like myself raised is foster care. I bet when your child grows up what ever choice to make will thank you for saving thier life. and net time just be really carefull sweetie and hope you make the right choice.
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