How Did U Get Pregnant??

YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO TELL YOUR PARENTS ANYTHING, IF YOU CAN'T TRUST THE PEOPLE WHO GAVE YOU LIFE WHO CAN YOU TRUST? YOU ARE JUST A CHILD I THINK THAT YOU ARE TO COMFUSED AND DESPERATE TO MAKE DECISIONS FOR YOUR OWN RIGHT NOW SO YOUR PARENTS SHOULD NOW RIGHT AWAY, I AGREE THAT AT 14 YOU SHOULDNT BE HAVING SEX! IM SORRY YOU HAD TO GO TRU THIS AT YOUR AGE.

How dear that person insult that other person like that, he/she has no right. Talking about "u have no right telling someone what to do with their life" and still he/she further went on saying the girl isnt ready to bear a child - what do u really know? I am sure she wouldn't be the first 14 year old to have a child -some girls have kids younger and their bodies are just fine. I am not saying that she is right to be pregnant at this age but what is done is done u just have to bare the consequences of your foolish actions and i think u shouldnt get an abortion - it is not fair to your unborn child have mercy on its little soul and love and cherish him/her when she is born. From your fellow teen

DONT GET A ABORTION, THINK OF YOUR BABIES LIFE OVER YOURS. YOU CHOSE TO HOP IN THE SACK WITH YOUR BF, YOU NEED TO ACCEPT THE CONSEQUINCES INSTEAD OF TRYING TO TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT AND GET AN ABORTION. ALTHOUGH I KNOW LOTS OF GIRLS THAT HAVE GOTTEN AN ABORTION AND HAVE SAID THAT ITS NOT WORTH IT AND THEY HAVE WONDERED FOR YEARS AND KNOWN THAT THEY MADE THE WRONG MISTAKE, DO YOU WANT TO WONDER LIKE THAT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?? I JUST RECENTLY HAD MY 3RD MISCARRIAGE AND READING THE COMMENTS TO GET AN ABORTION MAKES ME SICK. THESE GIRLS DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, AND HONESTLY ABORTION IS NOT THE WAY TO GO. OWN UP TO THE CONSEQUINCES YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN AND GROW UP. YOU SHOULDNT BE HAVING SEX AT 14, YOUR JUST A KID YOURSELF. GIVE YOUR BABY UP FOR ADOPTION TO PEOPLE THAT WANT THEM AND FAMILIES THAT HAVE BEEN TRYING FOR YEARS TO HAVE THEM. YOU NEED TO LEARN TO BE RESPONSIBLE AND GET ON BC IF YOU ARE GOING TO CONTINUE TO HAVE SEX. GOOD LUCK IN MAKING THE RIGHT DECISION, IT WONT BE EASY BUT YOUR PARENTS WILL BE GLAD TO HELP.

i was pregnant at 16. i thought i loved the guy. i was scared to death. i didnt tell anyone. then i had a miscarriage. it was the worst feeling in the world. now i am 20 going on 21. i have an 18 month old little girl. she is the light of my life. once again i thought i loved the guy. he was 27 and a marine. well he didnt love me and kylie enough to stick around. hunny if you want to keep this baby do it. i was a high school drop out, i went and took care of my maternal grandmother while i was pregnant. now i have my ged, i am going to school to be a nurses aide to later work on being an rn, and i am a part time child care provider. so if you want to keep the baby, do it. i dont feel like you should have an abortion because if you felt you were grown enough to sleep with a guy then you need to be grown enough to be a mom. but you are so young and dont even have a license. and if he isnt going to be there, it is very difficult being a single mom. people discriminate against you and look down on you. just keep your head up and talk to your parents. i might be pregnant again and i cant wait to tell my family because my fiance is definately sticking around. well i guess this is long enough. just remember before you have an abortion that there are plenty of people who want to have a baby out there who cant so adoption is a choice. whatever you decide will be best for you adn that baby. then go to a plannedparenthood place and get birthcontrol. or practice abstinence. please you are just a child. go live your life and have fun.

i know how u feel i got the same problem ima turn 14 in march but i also think im pregnat we have to tell our parents even thought they will get angry

My god, why dont you **** and stop enabling ppl to make excuse after excuse for their selfishness.

If shes old enough to have sex, shes should be mature enough to go to your 'planned parenthood' for protection or demand her partners use some!!

Not to mention, Throughout history girls younger then that have been giving birth, try a little American History.

Its sad that you think its appropriate to tell a young lady, apparently going down the wrong path that she can simply dispose of and forget her mistakes. Shame on you.

Im glad you posted this comment!! The more I read of posts like this young ladies, the more it seems that ppl replying want to be some sort of hero by coddling them and providing ways for them to feel no blame or sense of responsibility for their actions. Thats not helping, thats enabling them to grow into adults with weak charactor and no sense of integrity.

Do you have a best friend... ? Your spouse, etc... how would your life be right now if someone had advocated for their moms to abort them?

Try thinking before you offer such poor advice just so that some ignorant young girl might see you as her hero!!

And really.... why did you not mention that places like Planned Parenthood offer other services...? Really, your being ridiculous.

Anonymous wrote:

kayla wrote:

you say that you have no right to tell someone what to do with their life. why do you suggest an abortion? isn't that telling someone what to do with their life? that is so hypocritical.
and her body isn't physically mature to give birth? then her body isn't physically mature enough to be having sex. this is disgusting. there are so many people out there that are trying to have children and can't. and there are these immature young teenagers (NOT ADULTS) that are having sex and not being able to handle the consequences. here are the facts: if you have sex, you COULD become pregnant. it doesn't matter if you use protection, either way, it could happen. just because something is 99% effective doesn't mean that 1% chance could happen to you. so either you are mature enough to have sex and face the consequences or just don't have sex at all.


DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTIAN, that is murder,and is hard on your body. if you do not want to or feel you are to young to take care of the kid give it up for adoptian, give it a chance.

No, You have no right to tell someone what to do with their life. she is only 14. she isnt physically matured to give birth yet. doing so could destroy her body and the world around her.

and learn to spell, are you 12 or something?

While I agree slightly I think the forum moderators need to allow us to provide at the very least web links. Some people don't understand how to find the information they need, and need some help getting to it.



Also advocating abortion is something that all too often, people are quick to do, in my opinion. However the simple fact of the matter is that abortion is usually preferred over adoption, to the disappointment of many families wanting children to adopt.



The society we live in teaches people that they do not need to be responsible for their actions. Look at the lawsuits that waste the court time. Look at the generation that was raised on "Time Out" and have no sense of responsibility or discipline.

ImmortalOne wrote:

Wild Orchid wrote:

Im glad you posted this comment!! The more I read of posts like this young ladies, the more it seems that ppl replying want to be some sort of hero by coddling them and providing ways for them to feel no blame or sense of responsibility for their actions. Thats not helping, thats enabling them to grow into adults with weak charactor and no sense of integrity.
Do you have a best friend... ? Your spouse, etc... how would your life be right now if someone had advocated for their moms to abort them?
Try thinking before you offer such poor advice just so that some ignorant young girl might see you as her hero!!
And really.... why did you not mention that places like Planned Parenthood offer other services...? Really, your being ridiculous.

While I agree slightly I think the forum moderators need to allow us to provide at the very least web links. Some people don't understand how to find the information they need, and need some help getting to it.

Also advocating abortion is something that all too often, people are quick to do, in my opinion. However the simple fact of the matter is that abortion is usually preferred over adoption, to the disappointment of many families wanting children to adopt.

The society we live in teaches people that they do not need to be responsible for their actions. Look at the lawsuits that waste the court time. Look at the generation that was raised on "Time Out" and have no sense of responsibility or discipline.

I think that if they have figured out how to post comments/ replies on this site they are able to search the web for medical advice or w/e it is theyd like info on.
So as for posting links... I dont think it matters too much, they want answers but cant do any work for them? Its not difficult to search something and doing it that way is better then asking ppl on a site like this bc more often then not the replies they get are nothing but an uneducated persons opinion or second hand advice, etc.

When you are dealing with young teenagers, or others who are in panic/worry or other emotionally unstable states of mind, they are not exactly likely to know where to look. Additionally, the internet in all its glory and wealth of information, is not always easy for others to navigate. Just because someone finds their way to a website, or a forum, does not mean they will find accurate information they need upon the internet, or know where to look for help in their own back yard.



These are simple fact, that even in our day and age of "technology" a lot of people cannot even give proper directions to their home. They cannot tell you if they have a two door or a four door car. Others come from unfortunate school systems were they are not even taught how to write a resume', or they do not know how to read or write properly.



You have assumed to the extreme without leaving understanding for the failings or the short comings of others, and have failed to understand that others are obviously not yourself. These forums are here to help other people, to give information or experience, when they apply. Being able to add a web address, for someone who needs information, is not wrong.

All these people with stupid opinions about abortions should shut up and stick to the point which is giving all the information to the person who needs it.
If you are immature or uninformed enough to think that abortion is murder, then keep it to yourself, we don't need your silly views here.

ImmortalOne wrote:

Wild Orchid wrote:

I think that if they have figured out how to post comments/ replies on this site they are able to search the web for medical advice or w/e it is theyd like info on.
So as for posting links... I dont think it matters too much, they want answers but cant do any work for them? Its not difficult to search something and doing it that way is better then asking ppl on a site like this bc more often then not the replies they get are nothing but an uneducated persons opinion or second hand advice, etc.

When you are dealing with young teenagers, or others who are in panic/worry or other emotionally unstable states of mind, they are not exactly likely to know where to look. Additionally, the internet in all its glory and wealth of information, is not always easy for others to navigate. Just because someone finds their way to a website, or a forum, does not mean they will find accurate information they need upon the internet, or know where to look for help in their own back yard.

These are simple fact, that even in our day and age of "technology" a lot of people cannot even give proper directions to their home. They cannot tell you if they have a two door or a four door car. Others come from unfortunate school systems were they are not even taught how to write a resume', or they do not know how to read or write properly.

You have assumed to the extreme without leaving understanding for the failings or the short comings of others, and have failed to understand that others are obviously not yourself. These forums are here to help other people, to give information or experience, when they apply. Being able to add a web address, for someone who needs information, is not wrong.

Wow..lol
That was alot of gibberish!!
If someone can find this site, and go through the registration process, yes, they can navigate a search engine. lmao@u.
Such silly ppl!!

this is your decision but i cant really type for long so you can just give me a call at 313769-4037 and ask for keisha and i can verbally help you out.

Its a little upsetting to have a supporter be so forthcoming with abortion.

It was quite pushy, which may cause someone to do something they really do not.



Think about it and do want feels right, whatever that may be.