im 15 years old and i ve never had any sexual experiences i think its very wrong for you to have sex at a young age because you might not even know if you have a disease now and pregnancy is very hard to avoid now that you are pregnant even if you want to abort you still did what you did and got pregnant i belive in "no sex out of marriege or at least until your a matured adult" if i got pregnant my parents would kick me out of the house because i didnt obey their rules which i agree with. so if you need help i think the first step is to talk to your parents and tell them because later or sooner you will face them, even if they hate the desicion and kick you out of the house you can just talk to other teenagers that are pregnant and talk to your counceler and if you do decide to keep the baby then just give it up to a responsible parent or parents and everything will be ok.remeber you are not the only one!!
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to have sex is the decision of the person who is going to do it. a lot of people think it is wrong to have sex at such a young age or before you are married. It is your decision, so don't let anyone put you down or make you feel guilty for the decisions you make.
With sex comes great Responsibilities, like prgnancy, or std's ect. you are a very young girl. you need to talk to your parents sugar. don't be afraid to do so. i know it is scary and you are afraid of what they will say or do but there is only one way to find out, and that is by telling them. who knows, they might even be happy for some people see this as a miracle not a burden.
it is your choice to have this child, not anyone elses. Just think about what is best for you and the baby. if you decide to get a abortion because you think that is best, then do it. if you want to give it up for adoption, then do it.
what ever you decide to do, just remember to be more responsible about sex in the future. you don't want this to happen again okay unless you are ready for it.
With sex comes great Responsibilities, like prgnancy, or std's ect. you are a very young girl. you need to talk to your parents sugar. don't be afraid to do so. i know it is scary and you are afraid of what they will say or do but there is only one way to find out, and that is by telling them. who knows, they might even be happy for some people see this as a miracle not a burden.
it is your choice to have this child, not anyone elses. Just think about what is best for you and the baby. if you decide to get a abortion because you think that is best, then do it. if you want to give it up for adoption, then do it.
what ever you decide to do, just remember to be more responsible about sex in the future. you don't want this to happen again okay unless you are ready for it.
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:-( well I am 16 and i think that i might just be having a baby and i am scard to even find out because i know that if i am so many ppl will be disappointed in me and i really dont want that :$ but i am having bad pains in my belly and ned to get it checked out :'( but i am 2 scard ?
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Two very opposing strong views.
And both mis-leading. And scary to a 14 year old.
To the initial poster. Talk to someone adult you trust. Friend, teacher, whoever.
Don't do anything you will regret later either way. Families are often more supportive than you expect them to be.
If you choose abortion, it's not murder, it's only cells. If you choose to keep it, love it, look after it, and things WILL work out.
Don't let annon folk with strong views persuade you either way... Talk to someone who knows you, you trust, and make a decission you won't regret.
And for the record, I am pro-choice, either way.
And both mis-leading. And scary to a 14 year old.
To the initial poster. Talk to someone adult you trust. Friend, teacher, whoever.
Don't do anything you will regret later either way. Families are often more supportive than you expect them to be.
If you choose abortion, it's not murder, it's only cells. If you choose to keep it, love it, look after it, and things WILL work out.
Don't let annon folk with strong views persuade you either way... Talk to someone who knows you, you trust, and make a decission you won't regret.
And for the record, I am pro-choice, either way.
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Other people don't matter love. Sh*t happens in life. You have to check, because stress can cause the same symptoms.
If you want, I can help on MSN.
If you want, I can help on MSN.
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it is scary to find out if you are pregnant or not. the sooner you find out the less you have to worry about it. stress can cause symptoms like what you are elplaining. my husban and i thought we were pregnant for sure. he was away at school and i told him that i would wait till he got home to take a pregnancy test. as the days went on we got more and more excited about it.
when he got home i took it. it came back negative. we were so scared thinking that we were going to have a baby. but as the days went on things got better to where we were so anxious to find out. we were actually disapointed when the test came back negative.
don't worry, you are gonna need help if you are pregnant, so you might want to find out so you can tell someone like your mom or someone close to help you. pregnancy is a bumpy road to drive down. you need not to worry about what other people think about you. all you need to worry about is your self.
don't forget it could just be stress.
when he got home i took it. it came back negative. we were so scared thinking that we were going to have a baby. but as the days went on things got better to where we were so anxious to find out. we were actually disapointed when the test came back negative.
don't worry, you are gonna need help if you are pregnant, so you might want to find out so you can tell someone like your mom or someone close to help you. pregnancy is a bumpy road to drive down. you need not to worry about what other people think about you. all you need to worry about is your self.
don't forget it could just be stress.
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This is to the replay of user carifairy, it's someones decision on if they want to get an abortion or not, you could be doing alot of mental damage to the young girl by tell her that its so much easier to get an abortion. I cannot believe that you would put a price tag on a price of a life. It's a tough decision to make and when it alls comes to an end alot of women who have made the decision to get an abortion, have said they regret it and need to get therpy.
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Well 1st of all for all u people tellin her what to do with her life aint right at all yes i understand that she is 14 but it would be really hard knowing that you gave up your baby because people are telling you to i think myself that it is up to her if she wants to keep it or not no one can make her have a abortion to me have a Abortion is like giving up a part of your own body like come on the gurl is asking for help because she has no one to talk to ...i don"t think its rite to have a Abortion myself and at 14 you really shouldnt be having sex anyways lol i waited to have sex when i was 16 if you didnt want to have a baby at a young age then maybe you should be on the pill or something or not letting him do that inside of you ...but thats just me people can think what they want but i think it is like giving up a part of your body and that aint right to me ... >;)
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hi ok first of all good for you for turning to even the computer for help... when i was 15 i had sex for my first time i was on birth control for my acne and my boyfriend wore a condom....well the condom broke and apperantly the pill didnt work very well cuz i got pregnant....i went for 2 1/2 months without anybody noticing not even my boyfriend....and i was in school and i got such bad cramps that it felt like someone had shot me and i had miscarried.....but now i am 18 and with my long term bf and i am pregant he doesnt want to keep it and wants me to get an abortion...but im not it is my choice and it is your choice to abortion is only bad if you look at it the wrong way... but in your case i would look on the bright side of it you are only 14 and if i had my baby i probably wouldnt have met my fiance and would have dropped out of school and who knows where i would be ..BUT TELL YOUR PARENTS OR A SCHOOL COUNCILER!!!!! PLEASE for the babues sake and yours
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to the 14 year old thats too afraid to tell your parents your pregnant. it is INEVATABLE to hide your pregnancy between 4-6 months of pregnancy (pending body mass) you won't be able to hide the fact that ur pregnant if you feel that your pregnancy is going to be an issur for your family here are some tips that u can use to help you tell them with less confrentation so you can fully speak your mind
1. write it out, slip it under their door
2. call him/her while their away, no physical confrentation
3. religious help, if you are religious seek your local church or congregation for some venting (believe me it helps)
4. if you arent religious talk to a well trusted friend
make sure that your partner is there to back you up thats the kep if he is there for you it will make the blow a lot easier. you made a mistake but it will be okay lots of people have done this just be careful in the future! good luck
1. write it out, slip it under their door
2. call him/her while their away, no physical confrentation
3. religious help, if you are religious seek your local church or congregation for some venting (believe me it helps)
4. if you arent religious talk to a well trusted friend
make sure that your partner is there to back you up thats the kep if he is there for you it will make the blow a lot easier. you made a mistake but it will be okay lots of people have done this just be careful in the future! good luck
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It's your body and you can choose what you want to do with it. If you feel that you can't take care of a baby and your parents won't help (ONLY if you've told them!!) then you should abort. However you can still have the baby and put him or her up for adoption after birth. There are many families out there who can't get pregnant and your baby could be their wish. Though if you want a baby, want to have the hardships of being an adolescent mother, go ahead and have it.
The best and smartest way to not have this problem is NOT to have sex at all unless you're mentally ready for the responsibility. There is no excuse that 14yr olds should be having sex at that age, or even at 20, because having a baby is a lot of stress on the body and family (esp. if your parents don't want you to be pregnant). If I had a daughter who was 14 and who was having sex then turned out to be pregnant, I would take her to get an abortion. Then I would put a chastity belt on her so she wouldn't be able to have more sex until she's older. (semi-serious joke people)
Absolutely NO EXCUSE for having adolescent sex unless you were raped. Honestly, I'm 22yrs old and I hate hearing about kids becoming pregnant before they're even legal. I hate it!
The best and smartest way to not have this problem is NOT to have sex at all unless you're mentally ready for the responsibility. There is no excuse that 14yr olds should be having sex at that age, or even at 20, because having a baby is a lot of stress on the body and family (esp. if your parents don't want you to be pregnant). If I had a daughter who was 14 and who was having sex then turned out to be pregnant, I would take her to get an abortion. Then I would put a chastity belt on her so she wouldn't be able to have more sex until she's older. (semi-serious joke people)
Absolutely NO EXCUSE for having adolescent sex unless you were raped. Honestly, I'm 22yrs old and I hate hearing about kids becoming pregnant before they're even legal. I hate it!
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dont listen to people if they say u must keep the baby or u must get rid of it!! i am only just turned 18 n had an abortion bout 2 months ago! i wish i never had the abortion but my mum told me i had to! do what u think is best!! good luck xx
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I don't agree with abortion. It's too risky and I been close to people who can't no longer have kids and deaths because of that. There's always help for people who can't afford it. By the way, it's not the babies fault when we do mistakes and take it on them. Think about it! Don't do that;)
If you are not ready for a baby, give it in adoption which I also wouldn't myself but it's way better than killing it. Abortion: When the babies brain is being poked and squeeze until destroyed. You like the meaning to it, the go ahead and do it. But again, people wonder why the world seems to be coming to an end:(
A hot tea or pills that you could take between 24hrs after intimacy if you think an accident occurred, will help to prevent from involving. I had 6yrs without using any protection. So I don't find any reason for women who have had abortion when there's other couples wanting kids and they can't have any and they need to adopt one. With abortions, how will they be able to adopt?
If you are not ready for a baby, give it in adoption which I also wouldn't myself but it's way better than killing it. Abortion: When the babies brain is being poked and squeeze until destroyed. You like the meaning to it, the go ahead and do it. But again, people wonder why the world seems to be coming to an end:(
A hot tea or pills that you could take between 24hrs after intimacy if you think an accident occurred, will help to prevent from involving. I had 6yrs without using any protection. So I don't find any reason for women who have had abortion when there's other couples wanting kids and they can't have any and they need to adopt one. With abortions, how will they be able to adopt?
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How can you say that to anyone, first off think about how much stress this girls in, in the first place, she doesn't need you lecturing her about how she should keep the baby.
You can't even spell abortion, so how dare you tell someone how to live their life?
Think before you speak, I think abortion is good used under the right circumstances
You can't even spell abortion, so how dare you tell someone how to live their life?
Think before you speak, I think abortion is good used under the right circumstances
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Whatever you do dont have an abortion. Adoption or keeping the child are the best options. I know you must be scared, but if you found yourself old enough to have sex it's your job to carry this child. good luck. You'll be in my prayers.
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