Hi im 17 and my boyfriend and i want to have sex. Im a virgin so i know it will hurt but any ways i can actually enjoy it by?
Relax. Or try to. Don't just jump into it, mess around and get really comfortable so you aren't all tense etc.
Lots and lots of foreplay. Get some lube and use a lot of it. Cause if you aren't really all that wet it can hurt really bad because of the friction. Ask him to take it slow and tell him to push in a tiny bit and leave it there so you can get used to it. Then once you are comfortable push in some more. Continue till its in. It hurts but not too bad, especially if you give yourself time to get used to it and relax. Once its in take your time and go slow but it shouldn't hurt anymore. If you are experiencing a lot of pain especially after the initial penetration you might wanna see a doctor about it.