okay well my boyfriend has been wanting anal for a long time. i think itd be fun and i want to try it too. im 16 and female btw. well when we have sex he tries fingering my ass but its way too tight and it really hurts. hes tried rubbing it and licking it to get me open and it works but as soonas he tries getting up it i just clench up. i talked to my best friend about this (him being gay) and he says im probally just subconciously scared about the whole thing. i think hes right about this. his advice was to annally masturbate so i can get use to having something i have trust in being in there so i can have more control. i think this is a great idea and i want to prepare myself for my boyfiend as soon as possible. the only problem is i have no clue how to masturbate that way. i have very strict parents so i cant get lube or toys. i dont even know where to begin with this. any advice or how to steps on how to do it would be much appreciated.
I am curious about it too. I have read a bit about it. The only thing holding me back about anal sex is that ...many say that anal sex may be physically harmful in the long run. So I am planning to read more and more until I get all the information. Till then - no experimentation.
I dont wanna scare you, just trying to provide my thoughts.