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Hello. I am a nineteen year old enby. They/them pronouns, if you will. Now, I may be afab (assigned female at birth) but allow me to tell you, masturbation is certainly enjoyable for me and those of any gender, based on what I hear around my school. Things one should know: People of any gender can feel good by fingering themselves! I should know I've met plenty of guys who enjoy sticking one up their ass. Also, it should never hurt! If you are experiencing any sort of pain at all, stop immediately and if pain persists, go see a trained medical professional. Wash your hands before fingering yourself, and even better, put a condom over your fingers or entire hand. You can also use disposable gloves for this, but most condoms are already lubed up so use them if you can. Now, to the sexy bit! First, get into a comrtabke position. Just anywhere that feels good, relaxing. Next, get yourself aroused. Plenty can do this by just touching themselves, rubbing at sensitive areas (erogenous zones) such as breasts, nipples, between the thighs, or even at the hotspot. If you are female, rub your clitoris however it seems right. Start lightly, and add pressure until you begin to feel pleasure. If your vagina is beginning to produce fluid, or "slick", "c**t juice", "wetness", whatever you call it (I've seen enough porn to hear some pretty weird names) then you're probably succeeding (or maybe just pissing, if you are, wash your damn mattress). Stick your fingers into your hole, thrust in and out gently, roughly, somewhere in between, whatever arouses you most! Hell, before I got my hands on a dildo, I just stuck the whole hand in and thrust like I had only one chance left at masturbation. For males, possibly try sounding, or find the g-spot in your ass, apply pressure and rub/thrust in like how one would do as a female. If you're going in the back door, however, always use lube. ALWAYS. If it hurts, stop immidiately. Seriously, for a while I didn't know sex wasn't supposed to hurt, and that discouraged my turned on side for years. Just be safe, use lube as needed, and do what feels best! Masturbation with a partner, or mutual masturbation, is always good and feels ah-ma-zing. Don't freak out, described are pretty normal in most allosexual beings (asexual people are still valid!) and if you lose your virginity to your hand, that's okay. Most do! If you have any questions, reply, and I'll try to get back to you soon. Or, do your own research! Don't be shy, they've probably heard worse. This is S, signing off.
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