i have had fordcye spots for as long as i can remember and i am 17 years old. i have had 2 sexual partners and have done a lot with them and my spots are pretty visible so i may not be as lucky as some of you but the women i have been with have never mentioned anything about it, this was the only thing that could of bothered me about the spots as i can assure you they are no form of disease and are not contagious. There isnt many ways to get rid of them and i personally hate them on my penis but its natural and if you have them too dont let them make you embarrassed as they did to me because many men have them and youre not alone! be confident.
To anyone letting this ruin their life:
Stop allowing this to dictate any of your decisions in life. A conservative estimate of the percentage of males who have them is 80%! You're best friend probably has them worse than you. Im 23 years old and I have had them for almost as long as I can remeber. I thought they were totally normal because I'd developed them at such an early age. I had years of regular check-ups and not one Dr. had ever said anything to me to make me think otherwise. So I thought "F*** it! Im good to to go." And I was. From my first girlfriend, to my most recent one, and everything in between... Not one has mentioned a thing! In fact, Ive never seen a girl even act surprised or as if something is wrong after seeing or feeling them. My most recent girlfriend, who is still the best looking woman Ive ever been with told me all the time she loved my, yep you guessed it, D.
RELAX. You have one life, I can garuantee you're going to have much bigger problems to face than a couple of bumbs on youre penis. Lets face it, this is something that NO ONE sees except the person who wants to rip your clothes off for a bungle-sesh. The more you allow this to change the person you are in a social setting, particulary one with women, the more self-concious you become and consequently, the less like yourself. Ive never allowed these to bother me, sure I was like "God these things suck" but I had always thought they were normal and a bunch of guys had them. Even if they aren't I don't care and neither should you. If a girl does ever ask, I'll tell her exactly what they are and if it's somehow a deal breaker to her (which has never been the case before), I'll tell her that there are far bigger problems in life than a couple of bumbs on my penis.
Lastly, I've read that they are hereditary for some reason, which makes me ask... Do you think your great grandfather let a couple of bumbs on his penis stop him from kicking ass in WW2? I know it didnt stop mine. The more time you spend worrying about this miniscule facet of your person, the more your going to regret it. You might as well sit back and watch you're potentially awesome life pass right by. Enjoy the time that you have while you're still young and you'll look back it with smile. Remember, at the end of the day, you're the one who's supposed to grab life by the balls instead of the other way 'round.
Omg. I am afraid to.
To scare girls of with my fordyce.
I am just now coming to terms with the presence of these spots on my penis, and the fact that the more I think about them, the more they start showing up. Gone. I want them gone and there is nothing I can do about it, as it would seem. But; I like to use my penis, and I am looking at these spots, as a result, of using my penis, often. If it were up to me, I would not choose to have these spots on my penis. However; if the only alternative to having these spots continually showing up, is to stop using my penis, I just don't see that happening. The sooner they go away, the better. But in the meanwhile, I'm not going to stop using my penis, and I'm not going to let these spotsget in the way of using my penis. I want to thank everyone on this thread who contributed, for the support. Things like this, really do help. Seeing others going through what you are, and who think the same way and things about what you are going through, is a HUGE, HUGE, HUGE, RELIEF.
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