How to make my wife comfortable during anal

I am a gay male and really enjoy receiving anal penetration. You need to have lots of foreplay. You can't just go straight to trying to stick it in your wife's anus, you have to spend a lot of time kissing her, caressing her. Have you tried licking and tonguing her anus? Make sure its clean of course. Maybe you could rub her clit while you tongue her anus. Try putting one finger in, using lube. Use lots of lube. When she's comfortable with that, try two fingers. Once she's comfortabke with two fingers, try three, etc. Hopefully by this point she will be ready to take your penis. But be slow, let her know you will only enter as she is comfortable, inch by inch. Kiss her while the head of your penis presses against her anus. Kiss her while you slowly enter. Make her feel sexy and distract her with kisses and caresses because otherwise she is instinctively tightening her anus and it can be very painful to be penetrated when you aren't relaxed. Ive read that anal can hit the g spot. Tell her that! Good luck!