I am 24 years old and my boyfriend (29) and i have been together almost 5 years. I have always had some self conscious issues that lead me to not being as open in the bedroom. Our son has a lot of medical issues and since his diagnoses of type 1 diabetes last year the stress has greatly affected our sex life. To the point of us actually breaking up several times these last few months just so we can go sleep with someone else., have something new, exciting...in anycase, i am trying to figure out ways to spice things up a little, one thing im NOT going to try is a threesome, neither ffm or fmm. this is just something im not willing to do. I wouldnt mind role play or dirty talk but it makes me feel stupid...i dont know, any ideas??
It's hard to start something new that you've never done before because obviously it becomes an issue.
To make it easier to try role play or dirty talk, you need to be relaxed, and sometimes a glass of wine might help (not too much!!)
Also maybe it would be easier the first time if you did it in a different situation/setting, as you're out of your comfort zone and can start afresh almost, or pretend to be someone else.
It will feel less strange in a hotel you've never been to than in your bedroom after the usual routines you're both used to.
They're just my thoughts!
To make it easier to try role play or dirty talk, you need to be relaxed, and sometimes a glass of wine might help (not too much!!)
Also maybe it would be easier the first time if you did it in a different situation/setting, as you're out of your comfort zone and can start afresh almost, or pretend to be someone else.
It will feel less strange in a hotel you've never been to than in your bedroom after the usual routines you're both used to.
They're just my thoughts!