I am going out with this girl (bekk) and she is perfect she is so nice to me and makes me o happy but i need some help! me and bekki have been 2gether now for 9 months but the last 4 of them we have been having more and more arguments! and its not bekki falt it is always me that starts it and i dont no why! all my life i have been let down and ppl braking promises and all my ex's cheated on me! i think this could be the problem! please help us some 1!!