Hello everyone, I'm a twenty three year old girl so I'm pretty much aware of what I'm doing in case anyone thought I was too young for this! I'm ready to have sex. I've been ready for quite some time in fact. My boyfriend and I keep trying to have proper sexual intercourse but to our distress, nothing happens. I am usually very relaxed as he's someone I trust. I tried drinking wine even. Every time he tries to penetrate me, it hurts too much so I just end up stopping him. I used a mirror to get a better idea and I saw that there is only a tiny opening, that my hymen is tight and perhaps that's why it's been hard. I don't know what to do. Has anyone else been through this? I'm really depressed about it. I'm considering using a dildo instead as I think that would give me more control. I'm also worried this might be genetic, as both of my sisters have had severe bleeding when they lost their virginity and they had to be taken to hospital. Does anyone know if this is a hereditary thing or a complete coincidence? I really need help, please please. Thank you very much! :)
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