I am 13 and first had my period when I was
I think 10 or 9 and that's a pretty long time now
Anyway every1 is saying masturbating is soo good
But I've tried it several times and I dint feel turned on or anything,
I feel nothin if I stick my finger in it will go deep but I feel this like a weird sponge but
It's kinda freaky to touch it bcos I don't want to damage anything
Also I just touch my clitoris instead but that does feel good
Any advice??? Thnks :$
I think 10 or 9 and that's a pretty long time now
Anyway every1 is saying masturbating is soo good
But I've tried it several times and I dint feel turned on or anything,
I feel nothin if I stick my finger in it will go deep but I feel this like a weird sponge but
It's kinda freaky to touch it bcos I don't want to damage anything
Also I just touch my clitoris instead but that does feel good
Any advice??? Thnks :$
Guest,
Even though I am a 20 year old guy, I know a few things about masturbating (even for girls).
You may not feel anything the first few times. you are not going to get an orgasm just by touching yourself. You can try one of several things.
If you have a bathtub or shower with a hand held shower head you can rub yourself and hold the shower head near your vagina at the same time. This doesn't work to well with cold water so make it suitable for you.
You can also try using your fingers again over an extended period of time such (10 minutes). This may however hurt rubbing dry skin. try using lotion, baby oil or in while in the shower, conditioner. Don't use soap or shampoo, it may sting.
The only thing you can really "damage" is your hymen. If you have been sex ed class you should know what that is. The first time you have sex, this thin piece of skin will be broken and you may bleed. When it breaks, you may be in pain for several seconds.
I am going to stop here because I don't want to say anything insulting and get thrown off this forum.
Hope this helps
Holmestrix
Even though I am a 20 year old guy, I know a few things about masturbating (even for girls).
You may not feel anything the first few times. you are not going to get an orgasm just by touching yourself. You can try one of several things.
If you have a bathtub or shower with a hand held shower head you can rub yourself and hold the shower head near your vagina at the same time. This doesn't work to well with cold water so make it suitable for you.
You can also try using your fingers again over an extended period of time such (10 minutes). This may however hurt rubbing dry skin. try using lotion, baby oil or in while in the shower, conditioner. Don't use soap or shampoo, it may sting.
The only thing you can really "damage" is your hymen. If you have been sex ed class you should know what that is. The first time you have sex, this thin piece of skin will be broken and you may bleed. When it breaks, you may be in pain for several seconds.
I am going to stop here because I don't want to say anything insulting and get thrown off this forum.
Hope this helps
Holmestrix
I also forgot to mention that if it begins to hurt, stop. You can become sore or red. If for some reason you have a reaction redness or bumps or anything else while using the lotion/baby oil/conditioner, stop using it as well. Try something else and by that I don't mean using Drain-O.
And don't pay any attention the id**t who posted above me and below you.
Holmestrix
And don't pay any attention the id**t who posted above me and below you.
Holmestrix
I don't think you should try mastribating at all u don't need to. Your friends might tell you stuff but itis not always healthy forgirls do be doing that. It is ok to remain pure of mind and not let all that junk get into your head
Just experiment! It takes everyone (boys and girls) years to figure out how to pleasure themselves. What works for one person may not work for someone else, we are all different. rapidfire gave you some great advice. Don't listen to shannonrox - we should all be free to explore our bodies, our sexuality. There is NOTHING wrong with it, and it is perfectly healthy to masturbate.
Thank you deco. It is healthy to masturbate. It helps relieve tension, stress, and anxiety. Shannonrox, is the one trying to fill your head with nonsense BS. So don't listen to her. As deco said, experiment with it. everyone has something else that works for them.
I know this is quite late but I am also a teenage girl who has recently started masturbating. I have found that while in the bathtub it feels good to let the hot water from the fossit run onto my...area. I do this by holding the fossit with my feet and tipping my body back. Also if your not turned on you can try stroking your legs(lots of nerve endings there) or playing with your breasts. Nipples are a major plus when it comes to getting turned on.
dude today i mustarbated and it got beta den i felt like i wana pee but it was'nt urine idk what it was, it was sticky
There is nothing wrong with masturbating. Stupid uneducated and uninformed grownups will tell you stuff like that because they never did it.