hi!
ok, so i am 15, pregnant and my bf is 19. it's a little complicated, 'cuz the baby might also be from my brother. i was just wondering what my choices were besides getting the baby and keeping or giving it to adoption. i don't want to tell my parents i am pregnant, so can i have an abortion without their knowing or signature?
please, i need informations!
ok, so i am 15, pregnant and my bf is 19. it's a little complicated, 'cuz the baby might also be from my brother. i was just wondering what my choices were besides getting the baby and keeping or giving it to adoption. i don't want to tell my parents i am pregnant, so can i have an abortion without their knowing or signature?
please, i need informations!
Yes you can go and get an abortion without your parents saying so.I don't know where you are from but it depends on where you live to how much will cost you.It is a lot of money though.Where I live they have Planned Parenthood and that is where they do the abortions at.So look up Planned Parenthood where you live.But I will tell you that I don't believe in abortions.I also got pregnant very young.I was 15 when I got pregnant and 16 when I had the baby.I was scared to death to tell my parents.Actually I didn't tell my parents.My friends did.I thought my mom was going to Killlllllll me.Every young girl thinks their parents will be very mad and really once they find out they will calm down.I'm still with the same guy.We have been together since I was 13 years old.I'm now 29 and we have 3 boys together and I am 2 months pregnant.I lived with my mom until my first baby was 11 months old.I cant tell you what to do but there is a lot of help out there if you do want to keep your baby.Your parents wont be that mad.They will eventually get over it.Or you can put the baby up for adoption.There are a lot of couples out there that cant have babies and they would love to take care of your baby.You just really need to think about everything really hard before you make any decisions.Whatever you decide to do you will have to live with it for the rest of your life sweetie!!!!!!!!Let me know if you need to know anything else and please please keep me updated.Oh and if the baby is your brothers what happened?Did he Rapeee you?Does your parents know about your brother?(I had to spell Killlll and Rapeeeeee like that cause they wouldnt let me leave it in here cause they said it was bad words.)
ok did u just say it might be ur brothers?
yes, it might be my brother's. but not because he harasssed me or sth. we just had oral sex and he fingered me after we - together - made him cum. he is my full brother, by the way.
Call me curious, but why on earth did you do that with your brother? Is he older then you?
I don't judge others on their choices, but I'm just curious as to your reasons.
Best of luck.
I don't judge others on their choices, but I'm just curious as to your reasons.
Best of luck.
you are curious, but i understand. yes, he's older, 19, like my boyfriend. i don't know why it just felt rly good and my brother is rly hot! and before you think that is some pervertic little sister's view, though it is as well, all my friends are nuts about him! i don't know. it was just a couple of hours after i lost my verginity and i guess i was still...in the mood. and whats up with him i am not sure. he was stoned i think, so that would explain a little.
ya, we r pretty messsed up. and now i am knocked up.
ya, we r pretty messsed up. and now i am knocked up.
You are just plan stupid!!!!!!!Why are you so happy about messing around with your brother?????You are so so sick.You are just on here wanting attention.The only attention you are going to get is negative attention!!!!!!!!!
call me sick or whatever, i don't care! i got nmy punishment. i am 15, in high school and pregnant. ok, happy?
I am not going to judge you because you did something sexual with your brother. I believe what consenting adults do is their own business. At 15 you are young, naive, relatively ignorant, and not a legal adult, but I am sure you know what consequences are. So long as you realize what the consequences are and you can accept them if they happen, then I have no problem with what you or others choose to do. Society on the other hand does not believe that. Incest is illegal in most places and if you tell anyone that you and your brother had a sexual experience together, you and him could be arrested and go to prison. I don't know what the incest laws are where you live, whether they include oral sex or are strictly related to intercourse, but you should definitely keep quiet about that unless it was NOT consensual. If it was against your will, then tell somebody. Due to him being 19 and you being 15, criminal charges would probably include child sexual abuse and your brother would have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life. I am not sure what the specifics of the law are but this could also happen to you.
Are you sure that you are pregnant? When was your last menstrual cycle(period)? Have you had one since the last time you have had sex? If you have not had a period two weeks after you should have, then I definitely recommend buying a do it yourself pregnancy test from the store. In fact, I recommend you take a home pregnancy test anyway to give you an idea. But don't take the results of the test as proof. They are not 100% accurate and can easily show a false positive or a false negative, meaning it shows you are pregnant when you actually aren't or it shows you aren't pregnant when you actually are.
As long as your brother did not have intercourse (he inserted his penis into your vagina) with you, then the odds of your brother being the one that got you pregnant are low. Even if you gave him oral sex, he ejaculated in your mouth, and you swallowed it, there is NO WAY that you got pregnant from that act alone. It is impossible. There is a possibility of pregnancy if he ejaculated and you somehow got his cum into your vagina. The odds are low but there is a possibility. If your brother is the person who got you pregnant and you choose to have the baby, then there could be some very serious consequences for the baby. From genetic disorders to loss of immune system function. Look up inbreeding on wikipedia for more information http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inbreeding.
As for your options. They have already been mentioned but I will reiterate. You can have a abortion. You can give birth to the baby and keep it. You can give birth to the baby and give it up for adoption. You will definitely want to contact Planned Parenthood as soon as possible to discuss your options with them and get some counseling. I am not sure if you can get an abortion without your parents finding out, but they will definitely be able to tell you if that is a possibility. They will not contact your parents or school just for talking to them. I would not tell them any personally identifiable information about yourself (like your last name or address) until you are ready to take advantage of any services they may have just to be safe.
Because of your age, I would recommend that you either give the baby up for adoption or have an abortion, depending on your moral beliefs and what consequences you are willing to accept and live with. I have a few friends and have known many people in the same situation that you now find yourself in. I have seen the results of all the different options, and I have never seen things work out well for the baby in the situations where the teenager decided to keep and raise the baby. One particular person I know did an okay job WITH THE SUPPORT of numerous friends and family members but it was not optimal for the child. After you talk to Planned Parenthood, be sure to think long and hard about your decision. You will have to live with it for the rest of your life and no matter which option you choose, there are going to be consequences in the short term AND the long term.
Best of luck to you.
Are you sure that you are pregnant? When was your last menstrual cycle(period)? Have you had one since the last time you have had sex? If you have not had a period two weeks after you should have, then I definitely recommend buying a do it yourself pregnancy test from the store. In fact, I recommend you take a home pregnancy test anyway to give you an idea. But don't take the results of the test as proof. They are not 100% accurate and can easily show a false positive or a false negative, meaning it shows you are pregnant when you actually aren't or it shows you aren't pregnant when you actually are.
As long as your brother did not have intercourse (he inserted his penis into your vagina) with you, then the odds of your brother being the one that got you pregnant are low. Even if you gave him oral sex, he ejaculated in your mouth, and you swallowed it, there is NO WAY that you got pregnant from that act alone. It is impossible. There is a possibility of pregnancy if he ejaculated and you somehow got his cum into your vagina. The odds are low but there is a possibility. If your brother is the person who got you pregnant and you choose to have the baby, then there could be some very serious consequences for the baby. From genetic disorders to loss of immune system function. Look up inbreeding on wikipedia for more information http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inbreeding.
As for your options. They have already been mentioned but I will reiterate. You can have a abortion. You can give birth to the baby and keep it. You can give birth to the baby and give it up for adoption. You will definitely want to contact Planned Parenthood as soon as possible to discuss your options with them and get some counseling. I am not sure if you can get an abortion without your parents finding out, but they will definitely be able to tell you if that is a possibility. They will not contact your parents or school just for talking to them. I would not tell them any personally identifiable information about yourself (like your last name or address) until you are ready to take advantage of any services they may have just to be safe.
Because of your age, I would recommend that you either give the baby up for adoption or have an abortion, depending on your moral beliefs and what consequences you are willing to accept and live with. I have a few friends and have known many people in the same situation that you now find yourself in. I have seen the results of all the different options, and I have never seen things work out well for the baby in the situations where the teenager decided to keep and raise the baby. One particular person I know did an okay job WITH THE SUPPORT of numerous friends and family members but it was not optimal for the child. After you talk to Planned Parenthood, be sure to think long and hard about your decision. You will have to live with it for the rest of your life and no matter which option you choose, there are going to be consequences in the short term AND the long term.
Best of luck to you.
thx you so much! you rly helped me.
and i do know for sure that i am pregnant. or, pretty sure. i took three pregnancy tests, but because my period is rly irregular i can't say exactly when it happened. and with rly irregular, i mean, rly. up to 13 weeks without, but 4 me that usually is fine.
thx you so much for your support. and you are right. even though u rly want kids, i don't know if i am ready to be a mother ust yet and i am not sure if my bf is ready to be a dad. i am just worried that i will forever regret an abortion, because adoption isn't an option for me. i would be too worried, that i might want to seek out my kid someday.
thx again!
and i do know for sure that i am pregnant. or, pretty sure. i took three pregnancy tests, but because my period is rly irregular i can't say exactly when it happened. and with rly irregular, i mean, rly. up to 13 weeks without, but 4 me that usually is fine.
thx you so much for your support. and you are right. even though u rly want kids, i don't know if i am ready to be a mother ust yet and i am not sure if my bf is ready to be a dad. i am just worried that i will forever regret an abortion, because adoption isn't an option for me. i would be too worried, that i might want to seek out my kid someday.
thx again!
wow that is fuked you fuked ur brother you are a wierdo messed up person