In few days from now I will be married, but being from an orphanage, I don't have much choice. The guy seems to be good, though he has Islamic origins - but he has promised to take me out of India.
My worries center around sex, because am a virgin and my boyfriend left me with painful nipples - caused by pinching them. I don't want to ruin my married life, but am extremely worried if my hubby finds out and I don't let him touch my boobs? I will be flying off with him in a week's time to a new country whose customs and traditions are not known to me - nobody here knows anything about it.
My roomies however tease me that Islamic guys can go on thru the night and I may end up being a sex slave of some sorts. The sniggers and talk behind my back is giving me the creeps. Am mighty worried, please help
Perhaps you may want to discuss your apprehensions with care takers at the orphanage? Talking to them and discussing may help. Contrary to what you might hear and read, Islamic guys are not bad at all. They are human beings too.
Learn about the country you might migrate? Google search about their customs and traditions.
About your concerns around painful nipples, express your concerns with your fiancee or through a common friend or care giver? You can always talk things over. Every virgin girl goes through the same process, its ok to be apprehensive, but you will enjoy the experience