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i am going thru the same thing.  the first day of my last menstrueal period was august 12th-17th or 18th. I had unprotected sex with a guy on the 22nd he did not come in me. we stopped and i gave him oral then he cummed on himself. i had sex with my boyfriend on august 23rd and august 26th. on my period/ovulation app it says i started becoming fertile from august 22nd-27th. i didnt see my period in september so i went to the emergency room and they said i was 5wks 2days. making my conception date august 26th the same day i had sex with my boyfriend, i feel like its my boyfriend since conception is the exact day we had sex plus i have been tracking my period for a few months now and i knew i would be fertile that day and my boyfriend and i planned to haves sex that day. i feel like the other guy is not the father, but i know precum could have been present, plus my boyfriend and i have been trying for a year and a half now. a year and a half ago i had a 3yr implanon removed so we could try. this would be my boyfriends first child we are both 30yrs old. in the past he said when he was younger his brother had kicked him in the balls and the doctor told his mom he was sterile when he was round 5yrs old. but in the last 5-7 years before me he has gotten two other girls pregnant. one was a miscarriage and one was a  still born,  but both times he was either incarcerated or not living in the state and they could be possibly lying. from the dates does anyone think that he could be father? i know god can work in mysterious ways i aslo only have one ovary so i know it takes me a little longer to concieve. im just hoping it is my boyfriend we have been trying and now im 7months pregnant. i couldnt abort the child beacuse we did have sex on the exact day of conception. and i made a promise to god that i would not abort this child because of previous abortions. and also prayed months before this if god got us pregnant i would keep it. so what do you guys think, my boyfriend or one night stand?

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Hi Lovely,
Don't focus on the 5 weeks 2 days so closely. NOBODY, not your doctor, NOBODY can tell you exactly when you conceived. It's also NOT instantaneous. It takes several days for implantation (when you really become pregnant) to occur.

Sperm can survive about 5 days. If there was any sperm on the 22nd it is possible for you to conceive on the 26th by him.

The likely father is your boyfriend but take a DNA test to confirm.
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what happened was it your boyfriends?
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Hello my name is Abby I am scared I had sex with someone me and my ex had an falling out and I had a one night stand I slept with this guy on 18 off February and me and my ex slept with each other a few months later and I am a month and 3 weeks pregnant am scared to know who the dad is could you help me?
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Hi Abby,
When did your last period START?
Doctors usually base dates on your LMP. 1 month and 3 weeks pregnant would be Feb 25 for your LMP.
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Okay I missed my period in march was having sex with boyfriend amd im pregnant. I went to my dr todau and he told me that the baby was conceived on march 29th well on march 30th I had sex with my ex boyfriend im 7 weeks 3 days . Would it be by anu chance that it was my ex boyfriend baby. My dr said any time from after march 17 to the 29 is when the egg and the sperm clicked
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ok i had my period on jan 13 and i ended on the jan 15 i had sex while i was on my period then jan 27 i had sex with my ex bf and i am due oct 20 so i do i know see i go seven day but when i had sex with my bf i quite two days after that

 

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There is NO WAY that your doctor can pinpoint exactly when you conceived - NONE! He's doing you a disservice.
You need a DNA test - there is NO WAY around it.
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Hi Guest,
Your period started on Jan 13? You likely won't ovulate until between days 11 and 16 of your cycle. Sperm can survive up to about 5 days so if you had sex after about the 20th it was possible. The 27th would have likely been at the peak of your fertility.

I don't have a clue as to what "do I know see i go seven day but when i had sex with my bf i quite two days after that" means.
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Ok ladies, here is how you figure this out... count starting with the first day of your last menstrual period. Day 14 is the most likely day of ovulation. The window of possibility is day 11-21, assuming you have a normal 28 day cycle. So if you only had sex with one person from day 11-21 that person is probably the father. If you had sex with two people during the window, but one of them was on day 13-14-15 and the other was at the outer edge of the window, then it's more likely to be the guy closer to day 14. If you had sex with two guys on days 13-14-15 then it's a 50/50 chance. Now there theories (as well as supporting studies) that say that the sperm of an affair partner is more likely to fertilize an available egg than the sperm of a spouse or regular partner when both have sex with a woman in close proximity to ovulation. I don't know this to be true but the authors believe it. However it is a relatively small advantage.
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my name is Daniela 25 I am pregnant 23 weeks and 4 days Before I met my boyfriend I was single and had sex with one guy it was 2.12.2013 I met my boyfriend on the 7.12.2013 and had sex with him 10 or 11. 12.2013 From the first day I met him I had no sex with anybody else. My period started 18.12.2013 - 21.12.2013. After I had sex with my boyfriend 28.12.2013and 30.12.2013 18 1.2014 I find out that I am pregnant. I had my scan done 10.2.2014 and I been told I am pregnant 8 weeks and 2 days. Can u please tell me who is the dad of my unborn baby? I am so scare that the baby isn't my boyfriend's The baby due is 23.9.2014 Please help. Thank you
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Hi Daniela,
Doctors normally base dates on your LMP. 23 weeks and 4 days prior to now would be 17 December. If it was a NORMAL period then you were not pregnant before that date.

You would normally ovulate between days 11 and 16 of your cycles, so between 29 December and 3 January. You had sex with your boyfriend on 28 and 30 December, and 1 January. This would be near your peak fertility.

Your boyfriend is the father based upon what you have posted. You would not have had a period from 18-21 December and you'd be a month further along otherwise.

Hope it helps.
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Am in a same position my period was on sept 18-21 nd i slep with my man 4rm de 1st of sept until de 27 sept nd on de 28 of sept i had a one nyty stand nd frm de 30 sept i slep wit my man until 2 dy nd nw 35 weeks prgnt my due date is on 7 july pls help who is de father
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You'll need a DNA test TK.

You had sex with the one night stand on day 10 of your cycle. Normally you'd ovulate between days 11-16. The timing was just about perfect to get pregnant, sperm can survive about 5 days.

Yes, it could be your man, you had sex with him near when you'd ovulate too.

There is NO other way to tell.

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ok so mines a bit weird.. I got my period on the 13th of may I had sex on the second day of my period .. he didnt go inside me pulled out. then I had sex with my fiance all month on my most fertile days with ejaculation. my cycles are 30 days or more? what are the chances its the first guy from my period ...?
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