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I'm currently pregnant, 22 weeks. Last period was 18 March 2016. Finished on the 22 March 2016. Had sex with my partner on that day till the 25th. Then I was so drunk I didn't know what was happening, it was dark and I thought I was having sex with my man. But it was another guy. He came in me. The next day I had sex with my partner again and so on and on and on. Now I'm pregnant I don't know who the father is. Would it be my partner or the one night stand guy? Please help
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17th is almost a week earlier than 23rd. Dates are important!
Working on the basis of a negative result on 18th, but a positive on 23rd, and assuming the test on 18th was reliable, then I state again the most likely occasion was sex on 1st August. But I would suggest you take another test in a couple of days, followed by a blood test.
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My apologies for the confusion..my name is Katelyn I was here about 2 months ago with some questions and gave you the wrong dates at that time..like I said the first day of my last period was June 2nd and my due date is March 9th..so just trying to get a little clarity and peace of mind figuring out which of these men is the father..I already plan to have a paternity test done but just the nagging feeling up to that point is very stressful and ever on my mind..my apologies to Emily sorry about the mix up and wishing you well thnx
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Hi Katelyn, It would help if you gave all the details again in one posting, but from the little information you have just given, it would seem that fertilisation took place in the middle of June.
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So did you find out you were a month later than you thought at your first appointment? I think I am further along but when I got my positive blood test result she said it looks like an earlier pregnancy like a few weeks . Something tells me that's still not true
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Hi this is Katelyn again...so went for my 14 week appointment with my obgyn and he told me that I ovulated later than usual and placed my date of conception around June 30th to early July..very confused now because spent June 22 to the 26 with my current partner and spent July 1st thru the 4th with my ex..the thing is though that my current partner has always ejaculated in me but my ex always pulled out..not sure if that makes any difference and probably a stupid question..just very confused still and hoping to resolve this with the DNA test soon and get a little insight and peace of mind thank you

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Hi Katelyn

So what is the baby's expected arrival date?

Ejaculating does make a difference, and it is, even with a conception date of 30 June/1 July, likely that your current partner is the father.

However a DNA test is the answer.

(P.S. Try to reply to the relevant post, not the necessarily the latest - it helps the continuity)

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Hi it's Katelyn..the due date is march 23rd 2017..
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Hi Katelyn,

23rd March suggests a fetilisation date of 30th June 2016. That indicates fertile days of 25th to 30th June. With ejaculate going in you on 25th and 26th, the likelihood is that a sperm from those days fertilised your egg released on 30th.

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I'm in a sim situation. I was due on on the 8th? Slept with my ex partner two weeks befor I was due. Then some new a couple of days befor I was due now I'm reading a positive result. I've got no idea as I didn't think I'd fall pregnant again. And also read somewhere it is possible to fall pregnant even while on a period. Anyone help?
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Exact dates would help, as well as details of your menstrual cycle, and why you think you were possibly due (to start your period) on 8th (of what?). However if your period were in fact due 8th October and you had sex on 24th, then it is likely that it was a very fertile day (your ovulation Day). Two days before your period is due is not likely to be a fertile day. Your period would have to have been due no earlier than 20th Oct for 6th Oct to have been a fertile day. But you haven't given many details. Many people assume a 28-day cycle and if their cycles are actually 32 days they say they are always 4 days late! All this is said without any information about the likelihood of 8th October being a real due date.

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How did you find out I need help
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That post was nearly 12 months ago.
If you give your own specific details someone might be able to help.
Details need to include your cycle length, date of last two period starts, and details of sexual activity since your last period.
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Well I don't know who my baby father is either..my cycle was April 17,2016 and it only last 4 days..i had sex with my first love for 4 days the day I got off my cycle....then I had a one night stand with this guy at the beginning of may...i am do January 22,2017.....they are very close of who can be the dad
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You haven't given precise dates, so I will have to make some guesses.

  • "my cycle was April 17,2016" = "my period started April 17, 2016"
  • "it only last 4 days" = "it ended April 21, 2016"
  • "i had sex with my first love for 4 days the day I got off my cycle" = "I had sex ... April 21-24"
  • "i am do January 22,2017" means fertilisation is estimated to have taken place May 1, 2016 using a 28-day cycle. You didn't state the length of your cycle, or when your period was expected to start in May 2016.
  • "I had a one night stand with this guy at the beginning of may" = Was it May 1?

It could be either guy, depending on precise dates.

So:

  1. What is the length of your cycle (typically 28 days)?
  2. What date was your period due to start in?
  3. On what dates did you have sex?
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