I have searched for this question EVERYWHERE but no luck, so I am starting to think I am weird %-) lol anyways. I am not addicted to porn. I stopped watching porn and I do not have any urges to watch it, but the thing is I can't masterbate or have a good orgasm without porn! Its really disgusting to watch porn but its the only thing that turns me on (i know that sounds weird). I never had a boyfriend, and i never had a first kiss or even got close to it and I am 16 (can't find the right guy. All the guys that ask me out just want my body and I am not a tool). I tried to fantasize but it really doesn't work that well for me because I can't imagine the right guy, because i have to be emotionally connected to him to even imagine him. I tried touching my body and stuff, but knowing its MY hand... its a bit of a turn off ;-;. Have any advice anyone? I have succeeded 3 times but i wasn't satisfied with the strength on the orgasm. I can't use a dildo or anything because i will get in trouble by my parents, so all i have is my hands and a thin sharpy.. which does not help much but its all i have. I tried using different positions but it hurts, because i am still a virgin. Anyways, any advice anyone? ;-; i really need some help. I have tried EVERYTHING..
You'll find that you can get aroused more by fantasy than without it.
That's normal. Some of us are wired to be more visually oriented than others.
Some get off on fantasizing more than when it's presented on a screen for us.
Don't worry, you're normal.
The fact that you've only had a few orgasms doesn't mean you won't develop a larger capacity later.
You'll find that you will find your hot spots and it may not require a dildo to satisfy you. The fact that
you used a sharpie marker makes me think that you're pretty inventive, and if you continue to look
around the house, you just might find a few more options. Some gals recommend a private electric
toothbrush (using the blunt, non-bristle side) and keeping it in your bathroom for yourself. Just don't
mistake one or the other! 8-|
That's normal. Some of us are wired to be more visually oriented than others.
Some get off on fantasizing more than when it's presented on a screen for us.
Don't worry, you're normal.
The fact that you've only had a few orgasms doesn't mean you won't develop a larger capacity later.
You'll find that you will find your hot spots and it may not require a dildo to satisfy you. The fact that
you used a sharpie marker makes me think that you're pretty inventive, and if you continue to look
around the house, you just might find a few more options. Some gals recommend a private electric
toothbrush (using the blunt, non-bristle side) and keeping it in your bathroom for yourself. Just don't
mistake one or the other! 8-|
Your pretty young yet - be patient, good things come to those who practice.
I was in my late twenties before i had the big super orgasm that curled my toes.
Just experiment and relax, it - i mean you- will cum, and cum, and cum..
Try using your hairbrush. Or maybe an industrial flashlight? I have and it works for me. You just need to work up to it though cause It won't just feel good the first time. You need to work up to larger things and before you know it you will cum like crazy :)
Get someone to sext you... If you'd be alright with something like that.. or just keep having fun, and trying new things, eventually you'll find something that will make you cum/orgasm. ;) Good luck.
Omg I am exactly like you in every way you just said! I'm glad I'm not alone! I even use a sharpy too!!!!
Im a guy right btw (u will find the right guy that wont want u only 4 sex and ur body it will happen ;) )
Well im 17 and it was easier for me because i got pleasure out of rubbing my penis but girls (i know this becoz i want to work as a dr )
u need something that vibrates like an electric toothbrush or vibration on phone ipod or just use ur fingers but if u want to orgasm run a warm bath or just a short amount of water in the bath usally that helps
hope that helped x
I'm 16 and I hump my pillow need help getting wet
If you need to get wet, just watch short but intense porn vids. (;
If you have a shower head set it to jet. You can use a razor just make sure you take the blade off. I used porn too and it helped a lot. Don't worry you're not weird! If you need more ideas just message me. I'd be happy to help you
I'm exactly like you. It's good to know that I'm not the only one. But in my case, there's this guy I'm really in love with. Sadly we broke up a year ago. But I'm still in love with him. I want to have my first time with him. But I don't want to spoil my first sex experience with the guy I love by fantasizing about it already. So it's difficult to have an orgasm wothout watching porn and even difficult when I try to fantasize
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I am 13 an i am like yhu to try to use a small stuffed animal and rub it slowly up and down then speed it up it feels sooooo good
If u get maybe like a pen pencil of a brush and watch porn make sure it's wet lick it or something while rubbing your vagaina up and down slow then fast u get very wet then u get this tingly feeling u get after some time and makes ur body shake and it feels good and then u should be satisfied it works for me And ur not weird it's normal for guys and to masturbate at ages like these
Same. Use teddies with hard noses. It turns me on and gets me so wet
I know how to masterbate and i know how to get an orgasm but when i feel the orgasm i stop HELP ME PLZZZZ