I'm 13 but I can't cum. Most of my friends can do it but basically I'm can't. Is there something I'm missing?
Hey there, so at 13 it is not uncommon to not be able to ejaculate (cum) it all depends on how developed your body is..... have you started going through puberty at all? If so when did you start? When did you first start getting hair around your penis/and testicles (balls)?
I started puberty about 7 months ago, and I started getting hair 4 months ago. Usually I get some sticky stuff on my penis, but I'm not quite sure what that is.
Ok no worries your body is not quite mature enough to ejaculate yet.... the average time for a boy to have his first ejaculation is about 1 year after he starts getting pubic hair. It for some it happens a little sooner and others a little later.... what does this sticky stuff look like, how much is there and when do you get it?
There isn't quite much, but its usually clear-yellowish.
Ok and when does this liquid come out? Does it come out randomly when you get an erection or after you masturbate for a while? What does it feel like when it comes out?
It doesn't feel like anything, most likely the liquid comes out at random times.
So this sounds like pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum) and is produced whenever you are sexually aroused, it's purpose is to act AS lubrication for sex and for some people masturbation.... it also flushed excess urine out of the urethra so that it does not kill sperm cells when they are ejaculated..... does this make sense?
Oh ok I understand now. Thanks for the help!
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