am 30 and still a virgin. i have problems letting a man in. it pains so much that my vagina just contracts and i sort of eject out the man. can you give me a solution for the same. is there a medicine which can help.
lubrication!!! , if ur vagina is very tight try using a small dildo with lubrication on ur own. Also u sound stressed over this so before sex, have a nice warm relaxing bath, maybe even with ur partner. Oral sex is also great foreplay, if ur not lubricated enough use lubrication just before penetration and enjoy it. The first time you may be a bit sore but don't let that worry u, and obvs. use a condom it should be fine.
If u still have a problem try using some desensitizing cream.
If u still have a problem try using some desensitizing cream.