I caught my 4 year old nephew masturbating while taking care of him and he started squirting what I think was precum. Is this normal? I mean I know it's ok for him to masturbate, but should he being making precum at 4 years old let alone squirt enough to soak through the sheets on his bed. I asked if this happens every time he said yes and that he's been doing for as long as he can remember. Is that ok and not sure if I should tell his parents or not I'm sure they know he plays with himself not sure if they know if he squirts.
It would be really unusual for a 4 year old to be able to ejaculate! I have heard of boys who do ejaculate long before puberty - my brother, in fact, has claimed that he remembers ejaculating when he was 7 or 8 - more than 5 years before he had any signs of puberty. I, however, did not ejaculate until a year or so after other signs of puberty. So - while I have never heard of a boy this young ejaculating...and think, if it's true, that it would be extremely rare - I can't say that it is impossible. I would be more likely to think it is something else, like urine, that he is losing control of while he is masturbating...
I hope that helps somewhat - and I'm curious to hear what others have to say on this one!
Hi there,
This may sound nasty on my part but a 4 year old 'masturbating'?? Im sorry thats plain wrong. What he is probably doing, as most little boys and grown men tend to do is tickle their penis. What can happen is while they do this it can make them loose control of their bladder, which this so called precum would most likely be wee.
Dont be silly, 4 year old's do not even know what masturbation is and if your nephew does, i dont think i want to know the kind of environment hes brought up in!!
I hope im right in saying the above, and i do apologise if it has offended you in anyway, but reality of it is, its just unlikely that your perception of what has happened is very VERY unlikely!!
This may sound nasty on my part but a 4 year old 'masturbating'?? Im sorry thats plain wrong. What he is probably doing, as most little boys and grown men tend to do is tickle their penis. What can happen is while they do this it can make them loose control of their bladder, which this so called precum would most likely be wee.
Dont be silly, 4 year old's do not even know what masturbation is and if your nephew does, i dont think i want to know the kind of environment hes brought up in!!
I hope im right in saying the above, and i do apologise if it has offended you in anyway, but reality of it is, its just unlikely that your perception of what has happened is very VERY unlikely!!
I think you shouldn't stress just let him masterbate and don't stress.
I agree masterbating at this young age may only be self touching, rubbing, etc, it is unlikely to be sexual in nature. As for his ejaculation, one consideration is precocious puberty, where children as young as 5 years old are developing secondary sex characteristics. Seeking advice with his pediatrition could get you the answer you desire.
Hi there Barbuto20, I was sure happy to see that someone else has a nephew that started materbating at a young age, it seem so different but it does happen. My little nephew started at age 3, but he never had any liquids come out of him, but he sure did take long showers and spend lots of time in the bathroom. I don't think he started getting a pre-cum until he was like age 9 or maybe 10, but it did happen for him. Don't know what really going on with the little guys any more but it a one in a lifetime kind of happening I feel.
If he is alone,and everything else is ok with the kid,why shouldn't he masturbate?? Everyone knows that is good to touch the penis,and he has taken it one more step.
Let him do it,but tell him that it is only for him alone he masturbate.No kids will destroy their feelings by masturbate:))
Let him do it,but tell him that it is only for him alone he masturbate.No kids will destroy their feelings by masturbate:))
u need to tell them so he can get help. but u know they might think funny about that and blame u for it so be very careful about it .
What does he need help for? Doesn't sound as if he needs any.
I used to bathe my son when he was a baby, its not unusual for baby boys to get erections, in fact I once read that a baby boy can be born with a erection but I doubt that a 4 year old who certainly can get a erection can ejaculate sperm. We all know that in baby boys their testicules do have sperm in them so if that 4 year old was playing with his erect penis there is a chance that pre cum could leak out but not a full adult like ejaculate. When I was a boy I used to get many erections but I did not masturbate in the way that I started doing it properly until 13 or 14, all boys get erections but at pre puberty no more than pre cum would leak out.
My aut bro loves to masturbate of course to him it feels great so we let him do it.
One of the things that young boys do not do after they have finish urine is they do not move a muscle in their urine track, which gets the rest of the urine out of his urine track. Young boys, when they masturbate and they reach a climax, which causes the ejaculate muscle to move that the urine, which is in the urine tracks, will come out. It very important that parents teach their son when he finishes urine that he move his ejaculate musical in his penis to get the rest of his urine out when four years old boys masturbate that they have complete dry cum.
It feels so good for girls to masturbate. We let them do it because it feels good.
Masturbation is not only used for releasing sex urges. It also applies to reduces stress and anxiety. It also uses to help a person to relax, and many use it before bed, so they go to sleep. A boy at four-years-old can ejaculate, but it is dry cum, which means there is no liquid. The boy can feel his ejaculate muscle working when he reaches a climax, but no smen or sperm comes out.
Of all the people replying, this writer had the most credible theory. Barbuto said nothing about his nephew appearing to have begun puberty. No surprise at 4. He also said nothing about doing a between the fingers check of what came out of him. (Thin like water/urine or thicker like pre-ejaculate?)
So I believe the nephew, at 4, has already discovered playing with himself, also known as masturbating, but "tickling his penis" sounds like a more fitting to describe what a boy of this age is doing, and he discovered that he really enjoys it. And for a 4 year old, having an orgasum means loosing control of his bladder. Also, the volume that came out of him makes this more credible.
So I believe the nephew, at 4, has already discovered playing with himself, also known as masturbating, but "tickling his penis" sounds like a more fitting to describe what a boy of this age is doing, and he discovered that he really enjoys it. And for a 4 year old, having an orgasum means loosing control of his bladder. Also, the volume that came out of him makes this more credible.