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I have been married since 3 years and just once i enjoyed having sex. I do not orgasm anymore. When i masterbate, it happens but when i am involved with my partner, it doesn't. It makes me frustrated.

What could be the reason?
perhaps you should talk to your partner ... it is normal that you bring yourself easier to orgasm because you simply know what feels good and what doesn't. Your partner cannot know that if you do not tell him... If you do not begin to start to talk to your partner and simply explain the situation (not blaming anyone) and start talking about what feels good for you, it's going to get more and more frustrating... you must resolve this with your partner and not on your own...
Remember - talk to your partner...
Good luck!
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Maybe trying a different position could help. If you would be on top of him you could stimulate your clitorus and he could massage your breasts to enhance the stimulation. It's worth a try :-)
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Hello,
it is a well known fact that women find it hard to orgasm whilst having sex, this is perfectly normal, there was once sugesstion that women had a G-spot, this has now actually been dismissed, we apparently dont have this now. the way we achieve orgasm is by having the clitoris stimulated, so if you are having sex and nothing is stimulating your clitoris it will be very difficult to achieve an argasm.

maybe you could try touching your clitoris during sex.... or get your husband to stimulate it with his fingers... you can also buy some creams/gels which make the clitoris tingle which will help you orgasm if you are too embarrased to touch yourself or ask your husband to touch you whilst having sex... there are lots of things you can try, but be assured this is a normal thing.
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Or Maybe the Lad ;P needs practice ive heard its a 30 mins for normal sex To acheive it or more

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