so i just started having sex with my boyfriend about six months ago. ive never masturbated and he is my first lover. during sex he's always asking me if im about to cum and I HAVE NO IDEA. yeah my legs shake but i never get the abdominal cramps or anything like that...i really need some help cause i dont want to fake it. how do i know if im about to cum? any better way to get me to cum, anything anybody knows will work?
having an orgasm has a lot to do with your mind set. ther eis no right or wrong to to orgasm it's different for everyone. the first thing however is you have to be relaxed. don't think about it . enjo the sex and it will come. you also need to be 100% comfortable with your pathner and talk to him have him lay off asking that probly adds to the tension. have a lot of foreplay before engaging in the actual act. that should help. but mostly you need to relax and enjoy. it may not happen due to stress or anxiety as well. hope it helps.
hi,
i am a 32 years old & i got married befoe three years & i am trying to get baby frm last 1.5 year but in 1st year my wife dignosed by thyrid now from last 6 months her tyriod was o.k & i stil tring but there is no progress is there any sugession for me
keep trying. Ask your wife to stay in the same posn after having intecourse for sometime.
But I'm kinda scared to tell him that I'm not orgasming. I don't want him to tthink he's not doing a good job.
My biggest problem is that during sex or oral Or anythiing I have no idea what to look for or feel for in this ccasse. I really want to orgasm and it feels great but I'm not sure what's working and what isn't