"it was yellow. It also has an odor to it that resembles urine."
hey, im new to this site, but i also have this problem. im 16 years old and ive only done this once with my boyfriend but ive done it a few times by myself.
im really worried about it. what can i do to stop it?? it really does look and smell like urine. i want to female ejaculate, just not pee. im only 16, so its unlikely ive got a weak bladder.
HELP!!! xxx
hey, im new to this site, but i also have this problem. im 16 years old and ive only done this once with my boyfriend but ive done it a few times by myself.
im really worried about it. what can i do to stop it?? it really does look and smell like urine. i want to female ejaculate, just not pee. im only 16, so its unlikely ive got a weak bladder.
HELP!!! xxx
I have "squirting orgasms" all the time.. I can make it shoot over three feet..And like Paradise I'm constantly having to change sheets and stuff..
^Guest. In time you will be able to control it or make it go farther (ETC.).. I have read since female ejaculate comes out the same place pee does that sometimes pee is mixed in with it. I'm not sure how to explain it cuz that doesnt happen to me..[/img]
^Guest. In time you will be able to control it or make it go farther (ETC.).. I have read since female ejaculate comes out the same place pee does that sometimes pee is mixed in with it. I'm not sure how to explain it cuz that doesnt happen to me..[/img]
I too have had this problem!! I want to know more! How do I make it stop? Is something physically wrong with me?? HELP ANYONE. I do have a question for everyone though...does this happen when you have oral sex performed on you or when u are having intercourse?? For me it is only during oral sex. Please give me more information~
Hey,
I'm not a doctor yet but i do have some medical training. It most certainly is not pee. During sex, the urine tubes are closed and cannot be opened until you are no longer aroused. For a woman, this takes about ~10-20 mins. So no need to fear. What it is exactly, i'm not sure, but no golden shower!
I'm not a doctor yet but i do have some medical training. It most certainly is not pee. During sex, the urine tubes are closed and cannot be opened until you are no longer aroused. For a woman, this takes about ~10-20 mins. So no need to fear. What it is exactly, i'm not sure, but no golden shower!
@ paradise4ray: Thank you so much for this bit of information. I recently noticed my panties had lost coloring in the crotch, after being washed. If this information is true, then I believe this "female ejaculation" is NOT urine.
You're right, it's not pee. It's actually more common than you think and its called a female ejaculation.
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Your fluid may have a little urine mixed in which would account for the smell and colour, but mostly it is a completely different substance.
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Your fluid may have a little urine mixed in which would account for the smell and colour, but mostly it is a completely different substance.
i've had this problem too and it has even stained my sheets and gone through to my mattress. i feel like i'm peeing and a lot of it comes out. thanks for clarifying but i'm still worried its pee. =/
also, anyone know any secrets on orgasming during sex? i have to orgasm before and then let my boyfriend in and i want to orgasm with him in me, not before. =/
also, anyone know any secrets on orgasming during sex? i have to orgasm before and then let my boyfriend in and i want to orgasm with him in me, not before. =/
Hi,
I have the same problem as you and my experience was almost the same. At first *I* thought it was pee then I did research and thought it WASN'T pee and then after "inspecting it", I thought again that it was pee cause it had a mild pee-ish smell and it did seem to stain things yellow and there was so much of it sometimes, I was like this HAS to be pee.
However my husband doesn't care either way, but thinks that it isn't pee, sometimes it is a lot less and soemtiems it is more clear and less smelly than other times...I dunno if it's a mixture of pee and some other kind of girl liquid.
I guess it's a matter of preference, even if it is pee, it's obviously supposed to normally occur because when women orgasm it makes it more likely that they'll get pregnant (IF you're not using protection) which is what nature wants and since (as many of you have noted) holding it back makes it really hard to orgasm...it is natural.
HOWEVER if you're just going to allow that to happen (which probably IS best if you want to have fun) then I guess just use a really good pad for it (they actually sell sex pads which attach to the mattress and are like an absorbent diapery type material and you just throw them away after).
Anyway you should talk to your boyfriend to reassure him that it's not like 100% urine but there may be some in there and it's a natural thing. Other than that, I guess talk to your doctor.
I have the same problem as you and my experience was almost the same. At first *I* thought it was pee then I did research and thought it WASN'T pee and then after "inspecting it", I thought again that it was pee cause it had a mild pee-ish smell and it did seem to stain things yellow and there was so much of it sometimes, I was like this HAS to be pee.
However my husband doesn't care either way, but thinks that it isn't pee, sometimes it is a lot less and soemtiems it is more clear and less smelly than other times...I dunno if it's a mixture of pee and some other kind of girl liquid.
I guess it's a matter of preference, even if it is pee, it's obviously supposed to normally occur because when women orgasm it makes it more likely that they'll get pregnant (IF you're not using protection) which is what nature wants and since (as many of you have noted) holding it back makes it really hard to orgasm...it is natural.
HOWEVER if you're just going to allow that to happen (which probably IS best if you want to have fun) then I guess just use a really good pad for it (they actually sell sex pads which attach to the mattress and are like an absorbent diapery type material and you just throw them away after).
Anyway you should talk to your boyfriend to reassure him that it's not like 100% urine but there may be some in there and it's a natural thing. Other than that, I guess talk to your doctor.
After 40 and after my divorce I began to gush when orgasming especially when taking top. My boyfriend now can make me gush with the use of his finger inside me in a matter of seconds. It is not pee. It does not smell. It comes from inside my vagina and he said he can feel me filling up and then it either flows out or squirts out.
I have no idea why I can now do this, but it is natural, and I have no control over it. The bed does get soaked - but it so turns him on that he can make me do this.
I also have a bff that also does this...
I have no idea why I can now do this, but it is natural, and I have no control over it. The bed does get soaked - but it so turns him on that he can make me do this.
I also have a bff that also does this...
Vaginal discharge after intercourse is common;if odorous and yellowish-green, treatment for a vaginal wart and Pap smear might be needed. During sexual foreplay, the amount of the secretions produced by the vagina and the cervix increase to supply a natural lubricant and provide a greater comfort for insertion. The glands found near the vagina stop producing the liquids once the excitement is over. Vaginal discharge after intercourse is common;if odorous and yellowish-green, treatment for a vaginal wart and Pap smear might be needed.
It's commonly referred to as 'squirting'!
It's a good thing- don't worry.
A lot of girls have problems interpreting what it is and why it's happening, but it's NOT pee and it comes out of a special part in your vagina.
Do some research!
It's a good thing- don't worry.
A lot of girls have problems interpreting what it is and why it's happening, but it's NOT pee and it comes out of a special part in your vagina.
Do some research!
It's not urine, trust me. I know because I do it too. My doctor said its natural for some women to squirt when having a oragm. You are just built differently then some women. It's a great release of stress and excitment all at once. Your fine, and it's really nothing to worry about. Besides when you have a guy who hasn't experienced it before you find out later that he thinks its awesome and you know they brag. lol.
I know what you are talking about, though mine is clear and no odor. It is not pee. I never did it until i got with my husband and when we get really into it it happens everytime. It feels great to me but of course yes the bed is soaked afterwards. Thats my side of the bed lol
I'm afraid I can't be so reassuring about the matter as I have the same problem... and im afraid to say it probably IS urine... I've been a little more sly about it and ive sorta kept it from him...
heres the thing... some women do really "squirt" and that is a clear and odorless liquid...
on the other hand a few people -- like us unfortunate ones-- when we are stimulated, it sorta stimulates our bladder as well. Assuming that it really does smell n look like urine....we are..well not that lucky... ure supposed to be able to learn to control it by keigels -- or so i read but who knows... I havent managed yet myself:(
hate it though its soooo embarrassing 0.0 if you find a soultion please do tell me:S
heres the thing... some women do really "squirt" and that is a clear and odorless liquid...
on the other hand a few people -- like us unfortunate ones-- when we are stimulated, it sorta stimulates our bladder as well. Assuming that it really does smell n look like urine....we are..well not that lucky... ure supposed to be able to learn to control it by keigels -- or so i read but who knows... I havent managed yet myself:(
hate it though its soooo embarrassing 0.0 if you find a soultion please do tell me:S
On this subject...yes, I do too...this I realized in the last couple of years...
when orgasming, it just comes gushing or pouring out.
I do not have a mate, and only very occasionally stimulate myself.
However, a man that I have met over internet and have been involved with for several months, says he loves it when a woman pees while orgasming.
So, women, you have nothing to feel ashamed of.
It does smell like urine and probably is just that.
It is a part of your body and we should not be afraid of it of think it distasteful.
This man has made me actually like it now, instead of feeling like it is weird or disgusting.
Gushing can be fun...see it that way.
It certainly feels great!
It's even better when the man is turned on by it and wants to suck it down.
He calls it 'warm and yummy.'
LOL...
L.
Canada. :-D
when orgasming, it just comes gushing or pouring out.
I do not have a mate, and only very occasionally stimulate myself.
However, a man that I have met over internet and have been involved with for several months, says he loves it when a woman pees while orgasming.
So, women, you have nothing to feel ashamed of.
It does smell like urine and probably is just that.
It is a part of your body and we should not be afraid of it of think it distasteful.
This man has made me actually like it now, instead of feeling like it is weird or disgusting.
Gushing can be fun...see it that way.
It certainly feels great!
It's even better when the man is turned on by it and wants to suck it down.
He calls it 'warm and yummy.'
LOL...
L.
Canada. :-D