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I squirt or gush a clear, colorless liquid everytime and many times during sex. It come with penetration from any position, mostly when I am on top. It occurs with stimulation of my clit or my breasts. If I am really turned on, I ejaculate just standing next to him. It feels tremendous and my boyfriend loves it. Protecting the bed, and ourselves, from getting too wet is sometimes a challenge. We use a large waterproof pad (made for incontinance) that stays mostly dry to the touch and bath towels. Sex in the shower is a good solution if it is comfortable enough. This ejaculation is an orgasm. But I have another kind of orgasm that is involves a different sensation, one that is stronger and more exhilerating. It does not include fluids or squirting. I perspire, shake, and usually scream out when I climax. It is a buidling of pressure inside of me. This orgasm, however, is one I can only acheive alone. It involves tremendous focus and would require too much cooperation, or I should say coordination, with someone else. Sometimes I feel like I am alone in all of this. I can't talk to other females because I do not want to seem crazy or horrish. I am neither of those things! I just enjoy sex! :-D
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if it smells like pee hen its pee but u r not the only female in the world who gushes when they orgasm.... its called female ejaculation and it usually happens when ur man hits the spot just the right way... its not water and its certainly not pee. its supposed to be clear not yellow and odorless.. sometimes its sweet depending on the diet u keep.... dont worry hun its okay ur not srange... it happens to me as well... enjoy it because not all women have experienced that... ur showing ur man hes doing a wonderful job
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My boyfriend has this problem, its only every few months.. but it takes him longer to cum, and when he does it sprays out and its like water?? i don't know why this happens and neither does he.. help?!?1
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Female Ejaculation-
Did you know that ALL women are capable of it?
It's True!

By Lisa S. Lawless, R.M., C.E.O.
Psychotherapist, Ph.D. Candidate
Founder Of HolisticWisdom.com

You may have heard of female ejaculation, or you may not evenknow what it is, as many people do not. Female ejaculation isnot only very real, it is something that ALL women can achieve,and is a very basic female sexual response that has remained amystery until recently.

All women can learn to ejaculate as much as two cups of fluidand spray it across the length of a room! Oh sure, there are alot of myths out there regarding this exquisite female sexualresponse. Some claim the whole premise of female ejaculation isuntrue, others claim only "special" women are capable and stillothers try and tell you ridiculous techniques based on mythssuch as suggesting that women should tighten their Kegel(vaginal wall) muscles to make it happen.

These types of statements are simply untrue. While women havedifferences in their genitalia (just as men do) all women arecapable of squirting these lovely orgasmic juices with the righttechniques. It is no different than all men being capable ofejaculating no matter the size or shape of their penis. The onlyreason that most people do not know about or understand how toachieve female ejaculation is from the sheer lack ofunderstanding women’s sexuality.

When I first heard about female ejaculation I was in my latetwenties. Being a sexually knowledgeable and adventurous womanas well as a psychotherapist specializing in sexual issues, Iwas shocked that I had never heard about it, let alone done it.

I personally discovered female ejaculation after having a veryopen and enlightening discussion with a girlfriend, whom told methat she did the "wildest thing" when she had an orgasm (andsometimes just when she was sexually aroused). I of course wasvery intrigued about this, and ended up asking her a lot ofquestions about how it happened for her. I then went to theInternet to find out more, and was met with a great deal ofinaccurate, conflicting information about female ejaculation.What was a chick to do? I wanted to know more about it, and mostimportantly at the time, I wanted to know if I could do it too.I began a mission of researching through medical journals,interviews with physicians, sex therapists and my clients whocame to me for psychotherapy.

After all my research, and developing a few theories of my own,I decided that I simply had to try to see if I could do it. I amhappy to say that I did it during my first attempt throughmasturbating. It was so simple! There were a few things that Ilearned and did in preparation that made it possible and thereare a lot of things I learned along the way which turned into a150 page book and 90 minute video! For the sake of keeping thisarticle and not a book, let me give you a quick overview of howfemale ejaculation occurs so that you get a general idea of howall of this works. First let’s get the myths out of the way andreview what is true and untrue about it.

The Myths & Truth About Female Ejaculation-

THE MYTHS-

1) Female ejaculation does not exist.

2) Only rare women can achieve female ejaculation.

3) Kegel exercise is the key to achieving female ejaculation.

4) Only women with prominent G-Spots can achieve female ejaculation.

5) Female ejaculation can only be achieved through G-Spot orgasms.

6) Gynecologists are educated about this issue and provide women with correct information.

7) Women can only excrete a drop or two of female ejaculate, and if it is more (especially in the amounts that some women claim 1-2 cups) then it would be urine.

8) Female ejaculation is or becomes urinary incontinence.

9) Women who have given birth are the only women capable of female ejaculation.

10) There is only one way to achieve female ejaculation.

THE TRUTH-

1) Female ejaculation comes from the Skenes/Paraurethral glands (also known as the G-Spot).

2) Women do not realize that they can ejaculate because they are missing the cues of when they can do it.

3) There are specific techniques that can be taught to a woman to teach her how to do it and how to hold it if she does not wish to ejaculate.

4) Women can ejaculate without having a G-Spot orgasm and for that matter without having an orgasm at all!

5) Women can increase the amount of fluid they ejaculate by following specific steps.

6) Women can ejaculate multiple times within a short period.

7) Female ejaculation is not urine, is much like the consistency of water, is clear in color, and usually smells like nothing or has a slight sweet scent.

8) OBGYNs and other physicians often misunderstand or even misdiagnose female ejaculation.

You may be wondering "If all women are capable, then why is itthat many women have never done it?" This is a very goodquestion, and is easily explained. Let’s begin with reviewingsome basic information about the female anatomy to betterunderstand how this works.

Where Does Female Ejaculation Come From?

Female ejaculation is a fluid that is pushed out of the urethra(pee-hole- just like urine) however, unlike urine it comes fromthe Paraurethral/Skenes glands (located under and making up theG-Spot) during sexual arousal.

How Is Female Ejaculate Different Than Regular Cum?

There are two types of female cum that can be excreted duringsexual arousal. They are clinically termed as urethral andvaginal ejaculation fluids. The one most commonly seen in ourculture is vaginal ejaculate, which lubricates the vaginal wallsand oozes out during sexual arousal. You probably have noticedit is milky and ranges in its thickness and odor based on awoman’s diet, overall health and the phase she is experiencingwithin her menstrual cycle.

Urethral ejaculate is what we are referring to when describingfemale ejaculation and is less common. It is the wateryejaculate that sprays or gushes out and is the one that isgenerally less known about. Again, this is not because only afew, special women are capable, but rather due to lack ofunderstanding of women's sexual health issues in this culture.

What Is In The Fluid?

Let me get the biggest myth out of the way- IT IS NOT URINE.Upon testing the liquid, scientists have found that it containslevels of glucose (sugar), and an enzyme (prostatic acidphosphatase), which is characteristic of a major component insemen. It is similar to the prostate fluid within maleejaculation but without the sperm. There are also two othersubstances contained in the fluid, commonly found in urine (ureaand creatinine), which are found in trace amounts. It is aunique substance, and unlike the heavier and thicker fluid thatyou would typically see when a woman is "wet" or has had anorgasm.

How Much Ejaculate Comes Out?

Most women can gush as much as 1.5 - 2 cups of the fluid whenejaculating. However this can be affected by how hydrated awoman is, how much she pushes while ejaculating, and otherfactors.

Why Don't Most Women Know About It Or Do It?

Female ejaculation is not difficult; its techniques are just notknown about by many. Because women typically don't know aboutthe elusive reasons they are not doing it, they are usuallysabotaging their chances for gushing female ejaculate when theyare having an orgasm.

One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it isbecause women will often feel like they need to urinate whenthey are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they thinkthat urine will come out, which it will not, they hold back. Yousee the G-Spot (Skenes Glands) fill up with the female ejaculatefluid and this puts pressure on the urethra (pee-tube) thus,making it feel like she has to urinate when in actuality shecould ejaculate if she simply pushed instead of holding back.

There are sure-fire methods, techniques and ways to achieve itas well as overcome inhibitors, yet the issue of holding backfor fear of urinating is a big factor for many women. Theejaculation techniques that I have begun training thousands ofwomen and their partners have been quite effective and not onlyallow for amazing ejaculations but will also intensify any type(women are capable of eight) of orgasm to mind blowing levels.Are There Health Problems For Women Who Do It?

No, in fact that is one of the reasons I am so passionate aboutteaching women and their partners about female ejaculationbecause unlike what many think, there is nothing abnormal orunhealthy about it. Did you know that thousands of women eachyear are told that a normal female sexual response such asfemale ejaculation is a medical problem (incontinence, which itis not) or something that they should be ashamed of as they arethought to be maliciously urinating on their partner(s)?

Because women can gush as much as two cups of ejaculate, manypeople think that it must be urine. Often women who do not knowwhat is happening (and there are many) are embarrassed, confusedand find it to be of great concern. It does not help that mosthealth practitioners are not informed about it as many women arebeing told they require surgery and/or psychotherapy for thisnormal female sexual response!

If there is one thing that I can stress, it is that femaleejaculation is not only visually erotic, but it feels incredibleto do it. The kind of sexual release that a woman feels fromthis powerful gush is like no other.
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i tend you have to pee REALLY bad after sex...and im worried that its really messing with my bladder....and i even pee BEFORE sex....i know ive orgasmed before but ive never really felt the *WOW* factor....its not the guy, he's amazing, but im just worried my downstairs is a mess....but is it normal to never really know you have an orgasm?? and is it normal to have to pee right after sex A LOT??
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I squirt big time when me and my husband are going strong. Ecspaecially when I am on top. But no it is not pee it is an orgasm. Maybe you haven't really had and orgasm and now you are experiencing one. But I love it. Even though I feel so drained afterwAards and my bed is soaked I still love it and I love it when I climax like that. My husband loves it except for he cums right after I orgasm bc it is so warm and it gives him this tingling feeling. LOL So this is just a REALLY REALLY good orgasm it's fine. Don't worry!!! :-D It's not pee!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Don't worry a lot of women do the same thing its called squirting, most guys find it sexy. :D
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wait -yellow color -has an odor
i not intierly (please ignore spelling)sure but that could be sighn of a yeast infection or some sort of infection ,you really should look it up on web md
best of luck
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Girl, this is totally normal! It's the girl version of "cuming" lol Yeah, I agree it's totally messy but isn't it worth it?! ;-) I mean, hey, guys are messy, too! One thing though, if it's yellow and smells like pee, you probably have some sort of infection. You might want to "take a break" and use some sort of yeast infection meds (over the counter) and drink tooons of water. Best luck to you!! :-)
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Okay. Lots of misinformation. You are completely normal. A woman's ejaculation (squirt) comes through the urethral sponge and out of the urethra. So yes, it feels like you have to pee. It however, is NOT urine and it is NOT water. It is very similar to a man's ejaculation only it does not contain sperm. It is sweet tasting because it has glucose in it. It is a clear fluid usually, and it has no odor. It can contain a small amount of pee since it's coming through the same canal and that is also normal. Urine is sterile. There is no way you are ingesting something bad for you even if you got some in your mouth.

The Anterior Foramen (deep spot) is up close to your cervex. It also causes orgams when stimulated and are usually a creamy consistency. And there are G-spot orgasms as well. So, vaginal or clitorial women can have different kinds of orgasms. There are right and wrong ways to stimulate all of them.

Google Jason Julius and watch his tapes. His education and his dedication and sincerity are unique to women and their satisfaction and comfort. You and your boyfriend both need to learn about the female anatomy.
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There should be no fear in orgasms. Otherwise, what's the point of having sex at all? Unless you are just trying to conceive. Even then, why in the world would you both not want to be in orbit with it. Learn to LET GO. Give in. Submit. Surrender. Both of you. IF you will do that, you will learn to have mind-blowing orgasms.

Don't let anyone tell you you can only have 1 or 2 or 5. I have personally had orgasms for two hours straight, then we went to lunch, came back and went for FIVE MORE HOURS!!! I had hundreds of orgasms. I was so orgasmic that I was cumming even laying beside each other with no vaginal stimulation. I had so many and was so weak he CARRIED me to the shower and bathed me and I had THREE more in the shower!

Don't let anyone tell you it's a lie or that it's not possible. Just because they are not aware, or have not experienced it, doesn't make them knowledgable. EVERY SINGLE woman can squirt. EVERY SINGLE man can learn how to dominate and control her body with passion and gentleness and learn when to penetrate her and not before, when to do what and how hard or soft to do it, how long to do it, the right way to do it, etc. Simply by paying attention to her reactions and how she responds to this pressure or that touch, etc. It's all about learning each other's body.

If you feel like you have to pee then let it go! It you are having an ejaculation that is the only way to have it! If you hold it back, it goes back up into your bladder and THAT is why you have to pee so much afterward. Your body was made to be pleasured. Let it be pleasured. Relax. Stop worrying about what is normal and not normal. How silly! The way your body reacts is absolutely NORMAL to the stimulation it gets.

Let go of your thoughts. Get out of your head. Let your body do what it is capable of and wants to do. Be in a safe environment with a partner you trust and both of you drop everything else and spend TIME-as long as it takes-as long as you want-hours and hours if you want! Just enjoying what your bodies can do. What a great creation you are!!! And you are perfect!!!
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About the woman who things she is peeing when she is ejaculating: Having been a squirter for years, the only thing that is not good is when a guy knows nothing about it, or is turned off by it. Actually you have an incredible mysterious gift!
Your body ph will change, as you will notice by its smells, tastes, appearance, etc. It is important that your mate celebrates with you in all your seasons of womanhood! Do not hold back on your gift. Even if you have to "release" yourself on your own, climax is too healthy to restrain!
Statistics have shown that there is alittle urea in the female ejaculate, just as there is in sperm. If you always urinate before sex, and it still has some yellow in it, the odds are that you are not hydrated. Your kidneys and body need even more liquid than women who do not ejaculate. Let it rip. There is so many types of mattress or cover protectors to use. I used to know a woman who would not let herself ejaculate unless she was by a hottub where she was comfortable. Find your comfort position and place.
Anymore, maybe because I am in the adult biz, there is alot of men that wish their women could squirt and alot of people pushing the issue. No one needs any additional sexual pressures, just to have releases in this life, however they can, and just as long as it does not hurt anyone else........ :-D
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Lady you are squirting it is female cum and completely normal and very sexy at that.
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I don't have proof to back this up because I don't remember where I read it buuuut... I'm pretty sure you're not peeing on him, haha. From what I know, what you're squirting out is what a lot of people "female cum." I think it ranges from clear to white to yellowish? The liquid is supposed to gush out when you orgasm, so I'm pretty sure you're not peeing from your description.
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Hello 2 all.... It's such a comfort knowing that i'm not the only female, that this happens 2. I experienced it for the first time 3wks ago. I've been told that indeed a "female ejaculation"..... You know the funniest thing about it is, after all these years, I'd never really had an orgasm o.O o yea b4 I 4get to let you guys know that it felt so goooood. I'ts comforting knowng, that i'm on the normal side. XD Ladies, my advise 2 you until you expierince this anything else is a complete waste of time, as it took me this long...... :'( o.O & fellowa no disrespect what so ever, ;-) I:-D ttygl
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