hey there, I'm 14 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we've decided to have sex, he took my virginity and I was really scared because I have big lips because before I started dating him I sent a picture to the guy that I used to be in love with but he didn't know it was my vagina. He said that it was a gross vagina, and I wanna get surgery for it but I'm waiting until I'm 16, I'm scared though because my boyfriend right now says that they're fine but during sex my lips get caught, it's annoying. Also I'm sick of the bulge in my panties and bathingsuit when I look down. It's embarrising. I wanna get the surgery but I'm scared of the outcome. I don't know what to do..please help!
well its natural to have different size of labia. Many women are like you, and it's perfectly normal.
If you had the money, you could certainly find a plastic surgeon or gynaecologist who would 'reduce' them for you.
But why bother? Like all 'plastic surgery' operations, this one would carry a risk of something going wrong.
The expense would be great.i suggest you not to be embarrassed about the size, you must love yourself otherwise u have the alternatives to get it reduced, decision is yours