I went to the hospital last nite because i started bleeding a couple days ago just thought i was my period coming early but after 4 days of bleeding i finally went in they did a vaginal exam it was so painful took blood work the whole 9 really... they told me i had miscarried that my body had rejected the fetus it just doesn't make sense to me i just had my period on 3/28/12 i took 3 pregnancy test that all said negative i just don't understand how you can be pregnant and not know. i have 2 healthy children but went thru 2 very high risk pregnancy's but i had morning sickness with my kids this time i didn't have any sypmtoms. they ended up having to give me a blood transfusion because of the amount of blood i lost but i had no severe cramps or anything i never seen a sac or nothing just brownish-red bloody tissue and clots...its been almost a week now and the bleeding seemed like it was almost gone but now its medium flow again i just don't understand i kindof feel numb to the whole situation every1 i talk to just blows it off like its nothing but its something to me i guess im just a lil lost and confused im only 20 yrs old this is something i never have been thru be4 i want to get on b/c but dont know if its safe to so early ...
I know how you feel. I miscarried January 20th of this year. I was 7weeks and 4days pregnant and I never even knew. I had taken a pregnancy test a couple of weeks before and it came up negative. So I got on the pill and took them. The day I miscarried it started out with me thinking I had started my period even though it was a little early for the month...Whenever I removed my tampon, there was a fleshy substance on it. It reminded me of after having my first child, the fleshy stuff that came with the lochia (bleeding six weeks after childbirth). I freaked out and went to my doctor and I took the fleshy substance in a ziplock baggy. He looked at it and counted up my menstrual dates....I was 7 weeks and 4 days pregnant. I never even knew and it tore me to peices because I thought I would know or sense it if I was pregnant after going through one pregnancy already. My first child, my little girl, was a high risk pregnancy that ended in emergency c-section due to the gestational diabetes and preeclampsia. My daughter weighed 5lbs 13oz. It is horrible to think to yourself, how did I not know?? I know this from expirence. As for nobody thinking its important...I can understand that. Two days after I miscarried my baby, my sister in law came running into the house and announced that she was pregnant. She looked at me laughing and said, "Zack and I will be back later to rub it in yalls faces!" She left. I know she didnt think about it....but it hurt. Now she has found out she is having the first boy in our family...I have 6 neices. I understand what you are going through and I know this is alot to read, sorry. But it does get better. There are times that you feel like screaming...but it gets better. Best wishes.