I really want to get pregnant!

How can you tell this child it is okay to have a kid at 15? are you just as stupid?! i wanted a child when I was that age and thank God I didnt, I wouldnt have wanted to be branded stupid the way you are! I am happily married now for 6 months to the man of my dreams, we both got great jobs and yet we agree we are still too young and not ready to have kids. He is 20 I am 18, and even getting married that age mustve been stupid, but see we are mature enough to know that having kids at a young age only messes up our lives and I am very sure my childs aswell. Now tell me, do you want to be a grandparent at the age of say 30?
What the hell is happening to the smart people in the world?

i've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and we've been trying to get pregnant for 3 years now but nothing! i love kids so much that it hurts to can't make one, maybe it's my health am not sure but i've been having my period for almost 6 months now i don't know if that is the cause but i have doubts that, that ain't it because i've been trying non-stop but still nothing. can anyone give me true facts on how to get pregnant or any site?? i really mean this i want to have a child so badly you have no idea how much i love kids and i can take care of kids but one problem in life is i can't make one please someone help me.. :-( i hope and pray one day i have my miracle bundle of joy

I think you should consult a doctor to see if there is any help out there to get pregnant. Also I think if you stay paitant and hopefull it will happen. But keep asking around here maybe someone can help you better.

Wow. Here I am married, trying to have a baby, (which is not going too well) and I read about a 15 year old who wants to have a baby? I am a high school teacher that cannot get pregnant and I have to sit back and watch all of these little high school girls walk around school pregnant :-( I believe that everything happens for a reason, however, it is hard for me to understand why I can't conceive and these little girls can. Grrr...sometimes I dont even want to go to work b/c I just want to break down and cry. :'( %-)

OKAY TO THE 15 YEAR OLD I'M NOT GOING TO SAY YOUR TO YOUNG AND ALL THAT OTHER STUFF THAT YOU ALREADY KNOW. I WILL SAY THOUGH, IT'S ALWAYS BEST TO LIVE YOUR LIFE ALONE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND WITHOUT A CHILD BECAUSE IT GIVES YOU TIME TO MAKE A WISE DECISION. BECAUSE HONESTLY EVERYONE KNOWS THIS... IT IS YOUR DECISION NOONE COULD STOP YOU. BUT TAKE THESE WORDS AND REALLY THINK ABOUT IT BECAUSE IT IS BEST TO WAIT UNTIL YOUR 18. HAVE FUN WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND AND GIVE HIM TIME AND YOURSELF TIME TO LOVE EACH OTHER. GO TO GREAT AMERICA, GO OUT TO EAT SINCE YOUR HAVING SEX ALREADY, JUST ENJOY IT NOW. DON'T TRY TO HAVE A BABY NOW BECAUSE THE MORE FUN YOU AND HIM HAVE TOGETHER THE BETTER CHANCE YOU WILL STAY TOGETHER. RIGHT NOW A BABY WILL STRESS THINGS OUT AND WHEN YOU TO GET INTO AN ARGUEMENT HE MIGHT LEAVE. NOT PERMENANTLY BUT WHEN THINGS GET STIRRED UP. YOU DON'T NEED THAT NOR DOES THE BABY. I'M 23 AND ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE TRYING FOR A BABY BEACUSE WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER 6YEARS AND MARRIED FOR 2. WE'VE HAD FUN WITH EACH OTHER WHEN WE WERE YOUNG BUT WE KNEW THAT WAITING WAS A VERY SMART DECISION AND WE COULD NEVER SAY THAT A BABY TOOK ALL OF OUR TIME WHEN WE WERE YOUNG.SO DON'T GET MAD AT ALL THE POST JUST THINK OF IT AS YOUR LEARNING MORE AND IT'S UP TO YOU TO BE THE SMART GIRL THAT YOU ARE.

i am married to the love of my life and we have been trying to have a baby and well we just arent havin any luck. we both went to the doctor to see if anything may be wrong and nothings wrong. i dont know what to do we want to be pregnant so bad :'(

Most people will judge someone on their age, before their situation.
Firstly, I believe that if two people of any age are in the right situation, (stable accommodation, income, physically and emotionally ready for all the challenges and committed to a life time relationship between the parents and the child..) then they have all right to make that decision.
If trying to get pregnant, MAKE SURE YOU SEE A DOCTOR BEFORE YOU START to ensure your body and mind are ready for the task, also make sure you are not already pregnant when doing some of these TESTS because they can be harmful to a successful pregnancy.
Keep a balance between exercise and diet (take vitamin supplements as well as a healthy diet and don't go extreme with exercise to lose weight naturally gained during pregnancy.)

Good luck with your goals, and make sure your doing the right thing for the baby.

If you can not get pregnant in 12 months, then you are considered as " infertility" according to the definition. You may be frustrated but please make you check everything below,
1. Are there any structure problem for you and your partner
2. Are you reproductive organs are functional normally
3. Is your period OK
4. Are you ovulated each months
5. Do you have irregular period
If every above are OK, then you should be able to conceive. Irregular period is one of the causes of infertility, some women can conceive with it, but some women don't, because a microscopic change which can not be detected by conventional treatment may be the causes of irregular menstruation, leading to infertility. According to Traditional Chinese Medicine "There are no such thing of infertility, it is a myth" and "All women can conceive sometimes in their child bearing age before menopause ".
Kyle J. Norton

Ok look all youu quys overr here telliinq her she aiint ready for a kid? Seriously she came here for help not for people to tell her all this neqative stuff. I was 15 and preqnant. It ended up happeninq just how i wanted it I was 15 my boyfriend was 17. He watches the baby while im at school. Look 4 months with your boyfriend isnt a long time sweetie. BUT if you think that your ready for a baby then qo riqht ahead and just keep tryiinq i know how you feel i tried six months straiqht and couldnt qet pregnant but it happend eventully. You only live once and if you want a kid then just keep tryinq dont qive up sweetie its your life and your kid and your boyfriend not anyone else's. Just keep trying and dont qive up youll qet there (:

First of all, the 15 year old who "wants" to have a baby hasn't even responded since she posted....so, I think its safe to say that she doesn't really care what everyone thinks and she is going to do what she wants anyway. I'm not going to preach, as I have no "real" clout in the discussion; however, I will say that I have many friends who had babies young (in highschool), and I know how hard it was for all of them...to see their friends going out for parties, or football games, then prom, and on to college...when the whole time they are sitting at the sidelines with their baby. Not one of them would give up the joy they have had, but I know each and every one of them, if given a chance, would make different decisions then the ones they made. Even having a baby at 24, I feel like I sometimes miss out on things that my single/babyless friends can go out an do!

Now, going on to "being married before getting pregnant", I don't agree with, BUT I do agree with atleast making plans to get married later, after the baby is born. My husband and I had our daughter before we were married. While pregnant, and even shortly after, I didn't care too much about getting married. But soon, when I had to call the doctors office and tell them my name, and then my daughters, it got to be a little embarassing. I just didn't feel like I had a "real" family. I wanted to have the same last name as my husband and my daughter, and I wanted to be able to reference my husband as just that, "my husband", not "my daughter's father" or "my boyfriend", or whatever other term I had to use. Once married, I felt like we were a real true family. I needed that to be completely happy. Just my story.

Good luck everyone.
PS We're trying for #2 as well, and it is such an agonizing wait each month %-)

Tips to improve chances of getting pregnant

* Cut out caffeine, alcohol and cigarettes.
* Stop over exercising.
* Achieve your ideal weight.
* Reduce stress and depression.
* Discontinue using birth control pills. Stop taking them at least one full cycle before you start trying to conceive. Time intercourse.
* Optimize nutrition intake through a balanced diet.
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A regular menstrual cycle is the best way to get pregnant

I have been trying to get pregnant for three months now and I am not married, but I know that I will be with my boyfriend forever and we are stable enough for a child. 15 is way to young to have a baby. You still have your entire life ahead of you and you would be crazy to have a child at your age. Sometimes I get really aggravated because people like that seem to get pregnant from one time, and I have bbeen trying for three months and have not had any luck. PLEASE DON'T JUDGE ANYONE THAT IS NOT MARRIED AND ARE TRYING TO HAVE A BABY AND MS. 15 YEAR OLD PLEASE WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE ATLEAST OLD ENOUGH TO DRIVE YOU AND YOUR CHILD AROUND! XD

I am 22 going on 23. I would really love to have a baby of my own. Through dating I have found the perfect guy. My loving bf. hes 29, has his own place, $20hr job full time and his own car aka very set in life but he is very traditonal. aka me find a good job like his and wait until we are married. to me marriage means nothing except expenses. More a chance for me to spend lots of money for one day. I would like a wedding but I want to save up.

I've always wanted a baby. I am almost done my education. This my last year and I am getting work slowly but I rather be a stay at home mom. But I know I have to work to pay off loans so it just doesn't seem like there is room for a baby. Heck I suggested a get a new car because I am tired of putting money into my 98.

It just seems that everywhere I turn there are expenses. I want a baby but should I be saving up for one. Should it all come down to money. Like I am buying a baby. What if I can never afford one? I keep getting told I have lots of time but I want a large family. Should money come over family. I have a loving guy who was thrilled when I told him I want his children and he just said tell him when yet he wants me more settled. Its hard to do when all my friends and family are having babies around me. I feel like I am behind yet they have less money then me.

How does one decide when the time is right? When they have been able to save up and buy all the needed baby stuff? Where is the enjoyment and surprise? I know that by me not bothing with birthcontrol and hoping each month my bf may slip up is to me a sign I am eager. Should it really be cut and dry as baby being an expense. I know I have to get full time work but I am so close now. How long should I wait? A year or so. I have no desire to be a career woman. Keeping house and home while having a baby and writing would be heaven for me.

All this is going through my head yet its frustrating. I need some advice other my mother(who is almost 60 and wants grandbabies) and my bf who is almost 30 and want a good career and family. Yet they keep telling me to wait. Thanks

Hi! I just want to tell you that you are very smart, first of all, for thinking about what it takes to raise a child (not just have a baby). It takes a lot, but most of all it takes a lot of love and patience. I will tell you, which I've heard from every mother I've known....if you wait until you are ready to have a baby, you will never be ready, and the chance will pass you by. I believe this 100%! My husband and I were nowhere close to being ready to have a child (this was 4 years ago, and prior to us being married). His work was not great and I had just graduated college, and had not found a full time permanent job yet, but when I got pregnant, we GOT READY....plain and simple. You don't have to have a wealth of fortune to raise a healthy and happy child, and more times than not, the ones who are raised simply with just the love, patience, and happiness of selfless parents, are the ones that turn out the best (I know this first hand as my mom was single and very poor, and I know I am a wonderful person inside and out).



With this being said, you and your boyfriend need to agree...no sneaking around and getting pregnant, throwing him off guard...that only causes problems. But you should sit down with him, tell him what your true dreams are of being a stay at home mom. If he truly loves you and wants to raise a family with you, then he will listen and he will atleast take into consideration what you are telling him. From what you are saying, it seems you will have a degree, which is great because if you ever did need to get a job, you would have the means to do so. I don't blame you for not wanting to be a career woman! At one point, I thought thats what I wanted, but after having my daughter, I realize that the most important and rewarding job in this world is being a MOMMY! :) I am now 3 mos pregnant with our second child, and couldn't be more excited. We are by no means rich, and we actually struggle sometimes, but all that doesn't matter. Like they say, money can't by love...and in my home and family love is alive and blossoming everyday. At this point in my life, that is all that matters to me, and it is the same for my husband!



I wish you luck...and whatever decision you make is going to be the right one FOR YOU :)