ok look im very scared about this i started birth control pills last month and was due my period but i missed the last few pills of the month and now i have had my period for 14 days and although it bothers me i use to it but my bf is comming up and we want to have sex but i dont want to tell him,im only 16
Well you shouldn't have sex with someone if your afraid to talk to them about those kinda things. Stuff like that is important and you should wait tell its right. When You start BC sometimes at first your periods can be messed up talk to your DR about the 14 day.
A) it's okay.. it's completely normal for your period to be extra early, late, short, or long when you first start BC. It took me a year to get regular when i first started. Just KEEP taking them as directed, even if you are still bleeding, take the pills you are supposed to and it will stop and next month may be better but also might be abnormal. However if it lasts for like a month, definitely go see your GYN.
B) If you are having sex with this person, you need to start a relationship that has good communcation because it can lead to lots of trouble. So what you need to do is take advantage of this situation and use it as a chance to open the doors up. Dont be embarassed because a period is normal and if he's old enough to have sex, he's old enough to not go "ewwwww!" It is a good opportunity to start opening up communcation so make sure to say something. He will like it because you are sharing things with him. If you are too embarassed to say it off the bat, just wait until you guys are getting into it... When he goes to touch you anywhere near your...well, you know... stop kissing him and just say "oh wait..." and when he says "what?" just say something like "i have a little problem" and hell ask what, and say "it's that time of the month." That's all... no biggy... It's a very common situation and will happen a thousand times more. If he knew you were on your period a week ago, then when he says "what?" just say "i just started birth control and it takes a while for your body to get used to it, so i'm still on my period." No big deal! Normal situation~
Goodluck
B) If you are having sex with this person, you need to start a relationship that has good communcation because it can lead to lots of trouble. So what you need to do is take advantage of this situation and use it as a chance to open the doors up. Dont be embarassed because a period is normal and if he's old enough to have sex, he's old enough to not go "ewwwww!" It is a good opportunity to start opening up communcation so make sure to say something. He will like it because you are sharing things with him. If you are too embarassed to say it off the bat, just wait until you guys are getting into it... When he goes to touch you anywhere near your...well, you know... stop kissing him and just say "oh wait..." and when he says "what?" just say something like "i have a little problem" and hell ask what, and say "it's that time of the month." That's all... no biggy... It's a very common situation and will happen a thousand times more. If he knew you were on your period a week ago, then when he says "what?" just say "i just started birth control and it takes a while for your body to get used to it, so i'm still on my period." No big deal! Normal situation~
Goodluck