Hello, Everybody I am a 21 year old virgin & I love my bf so very much, but I still have the fear of losing my virginity I dnt know what to do,we try all the things in the book to make me comfortable but I am still tense n I don't thk I will ever be ready and I want to share that moment with him. What do I do ? It's so sad Bcuz we know we want to be together for. Very long time n we Tlk Abt the future and I dnt understand why I can't do lose my V to someone who I truly love
Hmm. I am glad you& your bf are very happy, but don't ever let a guy pressure you into something your not ready for. If you& him are happy now, it shows you don't need sex in relationship for it to be a happy relationship. I understand where you are coming from& i am proud of you sister! You don't need to have sex right away. Why don't you take steps, like oral sex? It's not as big or as stressful as sex can be. And i know what you about waiting for your true love. I am still scared/ worried too! Sex can either bring a relationship closer or not at all. But it all depends on if you are ready& are sure& if it's the right time for the both of you (: