Please no unhelpful comments or judgement, I am a 14 year old girl (15 in a month) and I tried to have sex with my boyfriend. He is also 14 but has quite a large penis. We both gave each other handjobs and oral before hand, so more foreplay won't help. He put his penis about a couple of inches into my vagina and it was so painful that i cried. I tried to carry on really slowly but we stopped for a few minutes so i could try to recover a little before trying again. It was a little worse than before and he didnt get any further in before stopping because i was in too much pain. There was a bit blood, but not a lot. What will happen if we try again? I obviously torn a little but it wasn't completely, so will that bit heal? Will it hurt more or less if we do again? I'm looking for advice as well on making it hurt less as it was too much pain to bear. Yes we used a condom, and I am on the pill but it won't be effective for another two weeks. Also I don't know if this matter but we were in the missionary position. Please help.
Hi, I can't say it won't be any more or any less painful because everytime is different but I will say to use a condom and extra lube to and you could always try going on top in cowgirl position as that gives you a lot more control as to how fast his penis enters you and you can also regulate the depth until your comfortable :-)