Totally agree, shared very similiar experience and feelings my wife looks when she is getting screwed by a man she is sexually attracted to and how into it she was and how much pleasure she was in. Would welcome to watching her again, liked seeing her wear short skirts and no panties showing her pu--y to some of our friends, knowing she would let them have her
I think Curious Chuck will find that videoing himself and his wife won't be an ample replacement for his fantasy. The video is nice to watch, but leaves something to be desired for the man who wants to watch his wife with another man. I know a little about this, because I have the same situation. My wife and I have done it before many times, with a very good friend of mine, and she always enjoyed it, drunk or sober. The friendship ended up dissolving over unrelated issues, and now, 6 years later, the thought of doing it with someone else terrifies her. She's made attempts, but always ends up getting freaked out in the process.
We've done the video thing, and I enjoy watching it, but it does leave something to be desired. So, I began reading about my fantasy to learn that it is very common among men. It's not so much the aspect admiring your wife's sexual beauty from outside the box as it is the idea of watching your wife find greater satisfaction in another man, than with you. It is a very light type of S&M. Instead of feeling a sexual rush from physical punishment, the man recieves a form of erotic mental torture. It is common with men who are not quite as well endowed as they would like to be, or experience occassional feelings of inferiority to other men, or less commonly, resent towards women. It is more commonly known as "Cuckold", and is completely harmless, and usually very therapeutic to your sex life, BUT ONLY IF SHE IS WILLING to take part. Some of the happiest couples I've ever met are into this lifestyle. They've found that when you harness jealousy and make it your servant instead of letting it divide you, you'll find yourselves closer than "sexually traditional" people are ever capable of being. Don't get me wrong, I would shrivel up and die if my wife left me for another man, but the thought of her wanting another man sexually is a HUGE turnon. My feelings of this were triggered in my late teens, when I caught my girlfriend cheating with one of my friends. I was enraged, and did what I thought I was supposed to do by beating him up. Afterwards, and still to this day, I feel absolutely horrible about it, and since then I decided that I would never let jealousy own me ever again. I have told every woman Ive been close to since, that if she felt urges to experience sex with another man, she may as long as I am aware of it. If it is done behind my back, then it is obviously done for reasons other than sexual gratification, so relationship over, period. And maybe this is just ironic, but no one has EVER cheated on me since.
Unfortunately, women are less likely to explore fantasies they feel will compromise their morals or label them a s***. Remember that their are double standards with men and women when it comes to sex. Also, women generally do not desire sex for the same reasons men do. Men look at sex more as a ride at the amusement park, while women find comfort, security and expression of love through sex. The bottom line here, is that if she doesn't want to do it, you can continue to try and explain your point of view to her. Be honest with her, and tell her the truth about your fantasy, and what purpose it serves you. While you're explaining this, don't be tempted to try and convince her that any part of it is for her. She knows better. Also, alot of women will get the impression that you are trying to create a situation where you can have sex with other girls, because she's doing it with other guys. You must convince her this is not the case, and that plays no part in your fantasy. What I would say to her is, "I'd like to do this occassionally, but ONLY if you can find satisfaction in it too. Some women will jump at this chance, but more often then not, when a woman thinks she's found her "soulmate", she will have no desire whatsoever to share her goodies with anyone else.
I found that if you can find video footage online on prim sites of a woman who looks exactly like your wife and she's with another man, it's almost like you seeing hidden camera footage if her cheating in you. It's a pleasure / pain thing but it works.
Hello, I too am totally turned on by another man f*****g my wife. I am much older than my wife. She is 46 and I am 68 but it is all I think of. Also, I am not sexually attracted to her except when I see her being mounted and screwed by her ex-husband. I am not cuckold, it is an unusual feeling but it is with me constantly. It took a long time to get to this splendidly wonderful situation and I thought I would pass on my experience. Firstly women don't like to organise these things, so you have to. Secondly, respect and dignity are paramount. Alcohol as leverage is not a good idea as you found out. The person you choose must be someone who sees this as the privilege that it is. You are offering your wife to another man. I would suggest that the three of you get to know each other quite well and so when the time comes she will be willing (if not suggestive) to be in a three some. She is thus responding to a situation without premeditation. So, I suggest you take a longer term view of making this happen so that the whole experience (not just the f*****g) is memorable to her and hence make it more likely that she will continue. I am extremely fortunate to be in the situation that you crave, but it took a long time and a lot of near misses before the connection was made. I actually made mistakes by not recognising that my wife was truly submissive and hence I had no idea how she would respond to the "alpha" male, so to speak. When I spoke to her ex-husband I then realised he was the perfect choice and would take her aggressively and dominate her. I enjoy seeing her being screwed by an obviously superior male who has attributes of size, stamina and volume far exceeding my own. It is her reaction to him that totally turns me on and only then can I enjoy fulfilling sex with her and him. Yes, he and I are both bi.
Sex tape is the way to go! ;D
Hi there. It is all very interesting, yet to get involved in a so called 3sum, both husband and wife should be willing to go ahead with a guy joining them in bed . It would be advisable not to get a friend, better look up for a guy not close to you. Plenty of guys around, and surely a lot are great fun. Me and my wife have done it quite a lot, and currently have 3 steady guys from other countries, who come to visit for a night or couple of days, and we really enjoy it. She is very happy with the situation, and really gets so turned on when our guy tells us he will be coming, and gets so charming with a great smile.
We are completely against videos, and if u do it, watch the video and destroy it straight away. I made a video of her with on of the guys, the next day we watched, she liked it, then we destryed it.
I love my wife, and like to see her happy, and we have been married for 35 years, and we love our meetings and will keep doing it.
You certainly are agreat couple. You both are enjoying it then what the hell, keep doing it and have fun. Wish i know how to contact uu, i would love to join u, and really make her juice flow and her p,,,,,y so wet with my cum.
well Im a married woman who with my husband is into threesomes MFMs, how we got into it was like this, he was talking about having more hands to caress me with, things slowly moved on, when we agreed to it, I got to choose the man, it took weeks to eventually succeed with it, there's a lot of talk about the wife getting angry or going off with the other man, well lads, why should I go off with the other man, my man lets me have anyone I choose, of course the other man has to want me, I have a husband whose sexual prowess is fanastic, he's great fun to be with, he makes me laugh, provides well for me and our children, hard worker, he's everything I want, the other is pure seual fun, and it lets me flirt (discreetly of course, I have to best of all the worlds, love Sally
You r great, enjoy ypur fun, , like we do.
I'm a 23 year old male, in the North West and i've got an amazing fascination with older women. I've never slept with an older woman yet, but I know if I get the chance I will make the VERY most of it. Without being big headed and making myself look stupid, I know I have got the looks to bed girls my own age, and have done on many occasions, but I just don't get the same thrill anymore. The thought of an attractive older woman actually makes me quite nervous, and i'd enjoy the thrill of fu*king another mans wife. The only problem is, how do you even begin to approach someone about that sort of thing without getting a right hook to the face, and a reputation for trying to nail another guys wife!
Suggestions would be helpful...:-P
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patience is the key, you have to be better at talking to stsrt with, homour is another factor, if you can keep a woman enthrlled you stand a chance of taking her to bed, good looks may attract in the first place but a woman especially a married woman will soon seen through a man who thinks he's the bee's knee, as I have said, Im into mfm threesomes, I have chosen a man then decided not to go for him after I think hr's too arrogant, modest will win the day and if you have the ability to laugh at youself, then with me that goes a long way, Sally