I want the same thing for my wife but, she has fears of black men and says she can't see herself with a black man but, I told her that she would just be with him for sex, not for a relationship and she has worries about black men being rough in bed and she doesn't want to feel used but, I was able to get her to sleep with a good friend of hers and she said she would have never thought of doing anything like that but, said she did it for me but, is worried it might hurt our marriage and I constantly reassure her that it won't no matter how far she goes with another man and I told her I just want to listen to her on the other end of the phone like the last time and she said she didn't like it too much yet she said she wished it would'a lasted a bit longer than the 15 minutes the guy lasted because he had gotten sooo ecited because he couldn't believe she was in his bed and he prematurely finished and he did satisfy her because I heard her orgasm out loud but, yet she said she wasn't satified but, I think she is just scared to admit that she liked it. I will get her to do it again at some point. Next time I want her to get it in our bed and for a couple of hours while I listen from the closet and get her to wrap her legs around his waist because she says that to her that means she is into the guy and she says she would be in trouble if she did that for me with another guys but, to me that would be even better.
Guest may offend some but he tells it the way it is and also has a moral message. In a natural state a women would spend her life pregnant if she had sex every time a man wanted her. He fertility cycle dictates mood and availability and her defence is early and before she gets into a position. As guest indicates once a women lets go she is often far more sexual than a man and therefore she controls this by earlier defences. Swinging with rules in place may be the only way to maintain it as recreational fun. The female needs to know its only recreational and a part of her fully relationship with her own partner.
well...I had this fantasy of watching my wife having sex with another man. The pleasure is all in seeing her in that moment. At first, she completely refused it. Over time, I would express this fantasy to her while having crazy sex. I would say "if you feel this good, imagine how it would be with someone you don't know." She loved the dirty talk. Eventually this was brought up out side the bedroom. We decided she would dress sexy one night and we would go to a club. She wore a short sexy dress and was dancing a little dirty. I told her i'm gonna go get drinks. While I was away, a guy asked to dance with her and she refused. She told me about it when I came back and I encouraged her to dance. So i stepped away and let her express herself. Another guy approached her and she started dancing with him. I told her not to worry about anything at all. Soon enough his hands were all over her body. She told me she felt so dirty that she didn't know what she was doing anymore. I liked that she was really into it as well. The night came to an end and we got home. She told me how turned on she was with another man touching her. She told me her panties got so wet that she felt that she was having an orgasm. She was sure that he was slipping his fingers in her and wanted to even slip his penis in. Instead, when things were getting out of control, she let him cum on her. Ever since that night, she asks me if both of us can go out and be free. Every time we go out now, she loves having another man on her. We regularly do this now. She picks a guy or even two or three she feel comfortable with and likes and we bring him/them home. I love eating her our after she is done. And she loves it as well...I guess its just the personality. Our love is stronger than ever and she admires that fact i'm not jealous of it.
Linda knows more than you think. They may not exist in your scientific circle but many women do like more aggressive sex. They enjoy being physical. They like to sweat. It doesn't mean they have mental issues. These same women may also like slow intimate encounters. And to some women size does matter. With the average males at about 5.5 to 6.5 inches a thick 8 inch tool is a big difference. And unless you own one you won't see the expression of wide-eyed surprise as you make her feel "full" when you hit "bottom" Nor will you hear her say I can feel you pulse or "It feels hot" as you empty into her. While size has nothing to do with reaching all of her pleasure points "friction" is moot as well if the male does not have enough training to make themselves last long enough to satisfy her. One more thing - when she does orgasm and her p***y clamps down on you her pleasure is greater when there is plenty to grab.
I've been having these thoughts on and off for a long time, both with my previous wife and my current wife. I've looked in to the possible psychology in my case and think I have a reason.
The thoughts with my first wife came when she was working late in a pub (England) on Friday to Sunday nights and would always be home late and after I'd gone to bed. She had an affair 7 years into our marriage and I actually caught the guy hiding in wardrobe when I came home unexpectedly one lunch time. Yes, true, I'm not making this up! He also had a pretty big penis !! Two days later, while in bed, she announced she was going to leave me for him. There was a "mercy f**k" and that was it. In the morning she was up early packed did leave me for a 3 weeks but came back when she found out she was pregnant and lo and behold the guy wasn't Interested in taking on a family. We stayed together for 15 years after that in a relative sexless marriage and basically for the child but I was consumed with my work so didn't really care. My fantasies came when she started working late in the pub and I was left home with the now teenage son (DNA test says he's mine). I was convinced she must be getting her sexual gratification elsewhere and it turned me on as I'd trawl the newly found Internet for porn with women that looked like her. In my mind, because I truly loved her, I was happy if she didn't find me attractive enough to have sex with but managed to get her kicks elsewhere. Thinking of her shagging another guy like we did before we were married with all the vocals and the hard sweaty sex was a real turn on. It was a turn on to visualise it in my mind but also to think she was getting enjoyment. I did ask a few times if she was going with other men when she was out late but the response was "no it's only cleaning the bar". I don't think it took from 11pm closing to 2am to clean the bar!! so I was convinced she was f*****g other guys and kept fantasising. Anyhow, I was getting somewhat frustrated that I hadn't "dipped my wick" for ages, and one day succumbed and visited a local woman of the night. I felt bad about it afterwards and still assuming she was shagging around with other men, said to her that night "I still believe you having sex with other men rather than me, that's OK I don’t mind but as I was so frustrated that you were getting it and not me, I went to a prostitute". Well, there endeth the lesson, Divorce was swift but costly.
Now some 10 years on I am married again (those who are doing the maths will work out I'm no spring chicken anymore). We have been together for 7 years and although we have regular sex, it's getting mundane. A similar situation to wife 1, that before we were married we had orgasmic (squirting from her) sex. Now it's lost some of the edge. In a similar way to my first wife, I want my current wife to feel the heights of sexual ecstasy she had when we first met. Also, from some of the comments she’s let slip, with some of the men she had between her first marriage and me, if her Indications are anything to go by. She told of the "elephant’s trunk" one guy had as we were joking about a TV programme talking about penis size. I also said that guys with big penis's could not get fully hard, "Oh yes they can" was her reply. Then there was another more recent "slip" when watching TV programme about a guy who got so drunk he tried to have sex with a car muffler. Her comment was that she got so drunk one night she had sex with a young soldier bent over a wall and the added comment "good god, he had stamina, I could hardly stand afterwards". Pressuring her for more info, she then clamped up, except to say "I have no idea what his name was, could have been bad as there was no protection and he did the full deed".
So here we are now, relative mundane sex and I don't have the stamina anymore to provide the rampant sex myself. She brings herself off with her rabbit on most occasions after I've done a sorry "pump, pump, shoot" attempt. So rightly or wrongly in my mind I feel she still wants the rampant sweaty squirting sex we used to have but I have difficulty giving it. I want to see her in writing sexual ecstasy and I suspect a younger, hunky, big cocked guy with a load of stamina and cum to dispense can do this. It’s partly to satisfy my own voyeuristic needs but also to know she’s getting enjoyment.
I should also add she's not in the best of health and occasionally has days where sex is the last thing on her mind but then a few days later she's turned on and gets the rabbit out. Sometimes on such occasions she orders me out of the bedroom while I can hear her moaning from outside as I assume she uses the rabbit while fantasising about some film star, guy she's seen or maybe even that soldier. I love it when I check for a wet patch afterwards and find one.
We’ve done the usual “home made porn” of ourselves and most of the remedies people put up for this fantasy before broaching the subject with your partner. But in my mind, and sometimes I feel from her reactions, in her mind too, I am not capable of fulfilling her sexual needs.
This is why I fantasise about, basically her being shagged senseless, like she intimates it was with the soldier stranger. Thing is, I know that even if she does agree to do it, the reality may not be up to my expectations (or hers.) This is why I've not raised the subject with her. It could be too much of a let down. Why take the chance ?
Maybe it's best left a fantasy so no one is disappointed?
Disgusting reply Guest. "Make her drink". The woman actually has a voice here. How the f**k do you know that this guy's wife will "love it". She's made it clear that she doesn't. I certainly pity your wife, and married to a pig like you.
My wife and me have been doing it for nearly 20 years. Always with the same guy. He is married and happy in that. His wife , I think, knows about it but is allowing it. Unusual situation ....I know. He and she are Greek. The european's have a differnt view of life and sex.
He is absolutely right. I have known someone who went that route. The wife got addicted to chat rooms and meeting different men. Finally, left with most of money, have total hatred for now ex- husband and the man who allowed her to do it,- because he loved her and wanted her to have happiness,- is left alone, broke and humiliated because she called all friends and his relatives, telling them he was not good enough, apart from saying other nasty stuff about him. Children have not respect for him because she told them too.
MY ADVICE: DO NOT DO IT.
My wife would never have sex with another guy in reality. But we talk about it...and we get turned on. I was telling her a story about her having sex with some guy we saw at a party and we made believe she was having sex with him while we were having sex. It was great!! BUT...that's as far as it should go!!! Respect your wife's loyality and faithfulness for you!!
where are u from ?
Well, Im 35 yo spanish married wife.I was very shy first time my husband asked me but I did.Now I love it and recomend all women to do it better than cheatting.In my case, my husband loves to compare penis and to watch me with others.He asks me if I like and how I feel it as touch us and licks me.Is great for a lady to have several experiences and to know new lovers during marriage.
Is very easy to contact new lovers, lot of them visitors from other countries spending some days here or special men to my desires.I like young men very hung easy to find around sports clubs schools and local chats.My husband preferes matures from 30s on and from north europe like germans swedish etc.......In my opinion if you try it you can not stop anymore, is great to have him there watching as I get loved.
The first time my wife screwed another man, it just sort of happened with a friend we were visiting in Florida.I hsd always thought I would be jelous if something like this were to happen, however I suddenly found myself telling my friend to f**k her good. after we left his house,my wife started to tell me he was sorry snd hoped I would forgive her. I told her that there wasn't anything to be sorry about because I could have stopped it if I wanted . I didn;t know why, but this was the most erotic scene I had ever witnessed.She then began to tell me her fantasies and it really turned me on. Since ther we have done her and my fantasies and it gives me great pleasure to know she is enjoying it so much as well as myself We have never been closer or happier.My favorite thing is to watch her having sex with a well hung guy.She sometimes talks to me while being screwed. We both love our life and are very happy
I am around 15 yrs older than my wife. She already started an FWB with this guy before we met and its STILL going on. Kinda HOT to hear here talk about it. She also goes dancing w girlfriends every week and I tease her about how long its gonna be before some guy picks her up. (she swears that no she wont but by the way she dresses, it wont take much time)
Love to watch her but not sure how.
MY WIFE has a younger man as a lover......... HOT :-)
love when she talks about it