I really want my wife to have other men, but not sure how to make the threesome happen
How could you not want to join in? This is every normal man's primary, number one, fantasy. Actually, when we were in our 20s (about 10 years ago) my wife told me she was open to a threesome if I could arrange it. Well, I knew several women who were interested; I had set it up with a young woman from the office, who said that she wanted to meet my wife alone for drinks first, and if there was "chemistry", that we would go through with it. Well, not only was there "chemstry", but they wound up having threesomes on their own, without me, but not with another guy, but with a third woman. It was another person I knew from the office.
All three then asked me if I would be interested in a foursome with them. Naturally I agreed, but after we started our encounter,mI came within 2 minutes I was so turned on. I just could not control myself the situation was so erotic.
Now, it ges better. All three were actually taking turns with their respective husbands. I was the first, and my wife later asked me if I would mind if they "fooled around" with each of the lady's husbands in turn (that is, a foursome first with me, then each lady's husband in turn). I reluctantly agreed but I guess it was only fair because after all they started with me and all three ladies were married.
Well, I did a few more "rounds" with the ladies, as did the other husbands, and I learned to satisfy each lady by controlling my ejaculation response. After this went on for some time, the ladies became bored and decided they would ask their husbands if they would mind having an orgy with all 3 husbands and all 3 ladies. Well, I'm sure you can guess that we did not say no, and in fact we had several romps with all six that were absolutely mind blowing. I don't know why, but the site of some handsome dude cumming into or on my wife while she is having multiple orgasms just drives me insane with pleasure and it makes me cum like a horse. I know, I should be insanely jealous, but in fact I have the opposite response.
Over time each couple went there separate ways, but from time to time we'll get together for drinks or a dinner party. We'll have some fun if the mood is right.
Surprise her for her birthday with a guy with a huge penis and she'll love it!
I suffer from ED and I knew my wife was in need of some good sex, The way I approached it was to suggest a massage convincing her that she would feel good, she agreed to letting me find a guy and check him out, This I did and I found the perfect guy, He came to our house and after a time he suggested to her to go and get ready. we went to the bedroom a short time later and my wife was laying naked face down with a towel over her lower parts . he spent a long time working from her neck down and came very close with his hands to places that by this time were waking up. She became very turned on and wet and she was the one who turned on her back and asked to be screwed, knowing that I could not with my ED the request could only be aimed at one person. He did a great job and the ice was broken, she now asks when needing action (once a week at least) we have a small circle of friends ready to meet her need
Don't cross that line like I did.
First, I have found this to be a common fantasy. In fact, I share it with you and many others. Here are a few suggestion that may or may not work. People are different, so there obviously one single solution.
When this subject manifested in our marriage, we shared it as fantasy only for quite a while. My wife sincerely seemed to have no plans of doing it for real. When this is the case, we should respect our wives. There is no point in doing it only for our own pleasure.
Instead of making exacting arrangements for her to have sex with another, we played sexy games that made her more curious and less inhibited over time. This eventually happened for us, because I set up oportunities for her to try as she liked. For example, I am often out of town. I offered a good friend to entertain my wife while I was gone. Of course he was aware of our fantasy play concerning the subject. Nothing happened right away, but eventually she was caught off guard and in the mood. Basically, she cheated on her time testing the waters.
This is probably a horrible idea for many couples, but it worked out for us. She was extremely concerned about even telling me and didn't right away. I admit I was a little shocked when I did find out, but ultimately it was completely my doing. I had to accept responsibility. After the shock wore off a little, I realized that I was extremely turned on like I thought I would be.
Today, we enjoy the arrangement and see nothing wrong with it. My wife is not often with other men, but she enjoys the freedom and sex when she is in the mood. It has also been a very few men It has never been a stranger or anything irresponsible. It is only friends and good acquaintances of one of us. We still have great sex with each other especially after a friend has slept with her.
I hope these ideas help you to be creative and find something that works well for bothyou and your wife.
This sounds quite similar to what I discovered when I was in the Army about 55 years ago. I was an instructor at one of the Army's schools where it was well known that once you were an instructor you would always be assigned there whenever you were in the states. That was such a definite thing that I remember one of my SFC friends getting out and going home to NY to re-up for a vacant slot at West Point. He was back with us before we missed him from the mess hall.
Most career soldiers at the school would buy a house near the post due to that situation and settle in as a family. I learned that many of them would set it up with another soldier to be around to "service" their wife while they were out of the country for a year or so.
Movies, most porn turns a woman off and if it's them in the movie without consent get ready for a rapid divorce.. I think that's a horrible self serving attitude.
Most woman I know don't like sex tapes, they would rather read something kinky. Men are visual a woman in most cases is not.
My wife and I have been married 33 years and done this numerous times (50+) with 2 different men.
It turns both of us on but we can still have our 1 on 1 sex without feeling something is missing, any guilt or issues.
Be prepared for some morning after guilt but be adults and get over it.
If you can't deal with guilt or have a poor marriage don't go down this road.
Never under any circumstances use drinking or drugs to induce this behavor. As another poster stated seperating "Love" and "Sex" is important if either of you can't do this don't do it. As a couple who have done this we both find the act intoxicating and addictive. But we never troll or cruise.
Good luck there isn't enough space here for me to tell you how we both can do this and still maintain a healthy marriage.
Bill
my wife and i have been married for 33 yrs and i asked here if she would like to try haveing sex with a young friend of ours because hes been to visit some times. i think he would love to have sex with her but she said no. the thought of me watching this is so hot , but it mite be a dead issuem any ideas to convince her out there
clean retiable you should ask a married man first that is the safest way to have good sex.
Well I have been married for 36 years and for the last 17 I have shared my wife with other guys , but never friends or people close to our life , that goes for anyone that works in our industry or we have chances of meeting in a casual function
I spoke with her many years ago about this and eventually she agreed.
So far we have invited 23 different guys ...I should ad that everyone has been married and joined us without their wife's knowledge
It has all being great fun and most of all we have lived all our fantasies and the guys as well.
From pre-arranged meetings in a Hotel bar, to Restaurants, hotel rooms etc.
I have been the one that pick the guys and arrange the meetings, then set the scene as a result I could tell you some very hot stories.
Anyhow do it if the two of you are in complete agreement, at the end of the day if she or you decided to part company …it was always going to happen. In our case all it has done is create a fantastic sex life for us
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