I want to know if my virginity is still alive. I had anal sex, sixty-nine

I want to know if my virginity is still alive. I had anal sex, sixty-nine, my bf. Entered a bit of his finger in my viginal. I don't know if I'm still virgin, the day that he entered his finger was my pierod day, during the little bit entrance I wasn't in period time, but I got back home, period just came. I don't know what to do, how to be sure of my existance of my virginity. And during sixty-nine his entered his tongue into my vinginal hole. Am so confused! Really need a help. I want to test myself by myself. Not going to doctor. Thanks a lot in advance.