Okay well i'm 14 years old and i have been going out with this guy for about 3 weeks. It sounds short however we have always been a bit more than friends since we started secondary school together only now we decided to do something about it. I feel extremly confident with him and i completly trust him. The problem i'm having is i feel insecure down there and i don't like what i see. I have huge labia and i don't know whether he will like it or not. We have talked about it and he doesn't bring it up i do and hes so understanding. I just keep telling him give me some time and i just don't know what to do. I'm not one of those girls who would ever have sex at 14, its way to young i would have it 18 or 19 and when i;m ready. I just want to have something really special between us. We have everything i want and i just want a little more. He is so perfect and i know how much he likes me and i like him because he has been telling me how he feels when since started school (3 years). Please don't tell me i'm too young because this is something i want i'm just scared. Please someone help me out.
Cristina
okay, i am a girl so i probably cant answer this too well, but i honestly dont think guys care at all about the way your vagina looks. to them i think they are honestly just happy that you have a vagina. have you told him that you are insecure about the way your vagina looks? he would probably think you're just being silly, and laugh at you (nicely). hopefully some guys could answer becuase like i said, im not a guy so i might not be perfecrly correct here. and good luck