I'm 14 years old, and my boyfriend is now currently 17 (turning 18 next year. He's coming to visit me and pick me up to go back to his house for the week of his birthday in August). I'm still a virgin, and he wants to take my virginity away. I'm fine with that, because I care alot about him. But I have a large labia minora, and I find that insecure about myself. I've been to the doctor about it, and they said it was completely normal. But they never let tell them how I can't put a tampon in the right way, it hurts to walk sometimes, and some days/night it hurts so much that I can't even get out of bed! (Some of my absent days have been because my vagina has hurt so much from it that I could hardly walk).
My mom and I have talked to a plastic surgeron, and after we told them my age (before we got any details in), they said they refused to do it because of my age (they said it was more of a U.K. thing to do surgery like this at such a young age. Not a U.S. thing).
I've had my labia minora for about 3 years now, at least that's as far as I can remember, and I've had my period for 3 years, too. My mom said that they don't want to do the surgery because I can grow into it, but girls my age have gotten the surgery done before (in the U.S.) because they were mentally and physically grown enough that they could have it done.
My mom isn't against the idea of me getting the surgery, but she said she wants to talk to a doctor about it first (we have at least three times). She's know women who have had this sort of problem too, and she knows how painful it is to have it (depending on the size). I've tried numbing my vagina before and taking pain killers (Advil, Asprin, Tyelonol, etc. I've tried probably 5 different types of pain killers to keep the pain of walking from accuring), but they only take a little bit of the pain away.
Can I get the surgery done based off of my conditions? Or do I have to wait unitl I'm 18?
Please reply. It'd mean so much to me if I got an anwser because I've been wondering this for a quite a while, but I'm too shy to go in and talk to the plastic surgeon face to face personally about it.
-xXx
Surgery involves many risks, at your age it is too dangerous. If you can´t fit a tampon try pads, or sanity towels. That's what I do.
hiya :) im in ireland haha apart of the uk ! LOOK seriously do not worry i know its hard not to i mean i want mines to be small its sooo annoying but i give up its me i am who i am im 14 to yeah it hard but im trying to get okay with it ive heard soooo many things and hey u know what ?? guys like it haha its not bad to have dont get the surgery u dont need it i had my period for 2 yrs its away gone and comes once a month :) nothing to worry about look being different sets us about from others we are who we are weather we like it or not . i dont wanna sound to cheesy but hoenslty mine is sore all the time i have infections its hard to deal with ive seen doctors their rubbish the tablets dont work but u know what your bloods changing at this age it will pass at 16 :) it will i promise okay :) but yeah i guess u could get surgery but their can be faults as well there are alot of women who would love a large vagina and dont worry if your bf likes u at that point haha he wont care what type of vagina you have he will just be to excited to :) ..... well you know haha :) just have fun see how it goes and if u stilldont like it or feel uncomfortable then in that case change it but i wouldnt change it even with the problems its normal theres others with the same issue look up different treatments :)