I'm 15 and sometimes I really want to finger myself but I either cant get my finger in or I just dont have the guts to push my finger in, sometimes it hurts when I try but i just want to get it over and done with so I dont know, did you have any problems? Please help :/
Yeah, when I first tried fingering myself, I too found out it hurt to try to push my finger in. I looked alone everywhere trying to find help. But the thing is that, only you can help yourself. Start exploring your body and when you feel ready you will be. I was so scared to push it in. I decided to wrap my finger in toilet paper and it made it easier for me. Then after a while I was able to finger myself with out the paper. It does feel good but I like using two fingers, so much better. And once I even fit in three fingers. Kinda hurt a little. What I say helps a lot is to be REALLY hormy. When I was ready turned on I just kind of went for it. Well I wish you the best in exploring yourself. Happy Fingering! (:
I'm an eighteen year old girl, and I defiantly understand what you're going through. The trick is to be extremely turned on and wet, and not afraid. For the turned on part, only you know what makes you turned on. Porn or sex stories, imagination or touching other parts of your body. Do whatever makes you feel amazing. As for wetness, that comes when your turned on, and the wetter you are the better your fingers will feel. Start with rubbing your clot and take yourself to the brink, then, before you cum, use one finger and thrust in and out. As for your fear, it will be very difficult to do the above if your afraid. Don't worry, fingering yourself is completely normal, and it feels amazing after you figure out how to do it! I hope this helps.
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