my penis is 3.5 in long when its not hard, and about 5.5 in when hard... is that bad ?
Sounds normal to me. Average size of a penis when erected is 5.5 to 6 inches. So dont worry buddie. :-)
You are in the average. Many girls cannot take a penis over 7-8 inches. A longer phallus will cause girls more pain.
If you watch porn very often, you may think that you have to have a gigantic penis to be normal. But those guys are not normal. Most of them will have problems with girls not being able to stand having that gigantic penis in her vagina.
I think it’s better to ask yourself, how does your erect penis feel in your hand when you masturbate? Do you like the shape of it, the feeling of your head gliding pass your fingers when you stroke up and down? Learn to love that and how good your penis feels and you will make an excellent lover