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i have a difficult problem can anyone help? my mam died a year ago+my youngest brother went missing then out of the blue someone i worked with 30yrs ago who nobody liked as she was manipulative+played with peoples heads. within 20 minutes she tells me she's suicidal and i don't know whether to believe her. i'm grieving but she doesnt care. i know she's playing games but i dont know to what extent. she seems to drink a lot+is very agressive.i have epilepsy+the pressure caused a very nasty seizure+head injury but i dont know what to do. i do know shes followed me when i tried to distance myself so i dont know what shes capable of since shes also made silent calls. i'm sure she has some psychological disorder has anyone got a clue? i feel if i had some idea of what kind of disorder she has then i may know how to deal with the situation safely. my doctor says to tell her to f**k off [pardon the expression] and go to the police however i know that if i do she'll react badly. my doctor says i'm too soft and thts why she picked on me plus she knows i'm grieving. its actually been a year now since she turned up and she hasn't attempted suicide yet. basically i dont know what to do and i'm too tired to think straight. i'd be very greatful for any advice anyone has [i know i'm a fool]. thank god for this website!

Well one thing I can tell you a person that wants to commit suicide will do it silently I know my bf's sister commited suicide 3 years ago,she would go silent and kill herself when alone ,she's just playing with your head believe me yes your to soft go to the police or get her some help because she's crazy
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thank you melany i was afraid someone would reply that i'm an id**t. i'm so sorry about your bf's sister my dad commited suicide silently 12yrs ago a fact my 'friend' knows. my head says go to the police but my heart says can i live with it if she does it. i'm almost certain i've backed myself into a corner. she also says she has a diploma in psychology which is a worry. its nice though to get someone elses take on it and i cant thank you enough taking the time to reply means an awful lot to me. so thank you for your kindness i hope i can repay it someday.
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Hi,no problem,sorry about your father but people that really want to commit suicide wil keep it silent ...and I would go to the police cause that women is acting phyco...and it's just going to continue if u don't do something about iit
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thank you again i have decided to go to the police at least as a way to protect myself and others around me. my friends also say she's psycho and it wont stop until i do something. i guess i needed the perspective of someone who isn't biased or protective of me because they are my friends. my judgement has been clouded by emotion i guess!

whatever happens i will always be grateful that you took the time to reply

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