I'm straight but gay porn turns me on

I do i want to try it once but in s safe way and wanna choose who anyone feel like they wanna try it with me

It's been a year I'm 15 now did it get better With age I'm having the same problem

I'm the same way. I jerk off to gay porn and have fantasies about sucking a penis, having it done, and what anal would feel like, but I'm more into girls and do not see myself in a relationship with a guy at all.

I suggest that each guy stops watching porn especially gay porn for three months to see if your sexual desire for men becomes stronger or weaker.

This will determine if it's a deep seeded desire or simply a porn addiction.

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I have also going through this too. When I was 12 I was bored and some nights I would like at pictures of men but I wouldn't fantasizing having sex with them I wanted to see myself as them and have a good relationship with girls. I'm very confused and looking back at stuff I did younger makes me question If im gay which I'm not. When my friends teased of being gay, I tried jacking off to women. I've always liked girls and I've always seen myself with a beautiful wife and kids. It's just the thought of me marrying a dude is not in my mentality.

I also jerk off to gay porn and I'm straight but I dream about a nice big fat penis in my mouth but kissing a man or doing anything with his ass or anything in my ass makes me sick however I want to try giving head

I am currently going through the same thing, only i have been single for 3 years and yeah i haven't kissed a girl since, and i have actually done stuff with guys as well (kissed and given a few blowjobs) i watch straight porn and i can't get hard. but i watch gay porn and its a quick experience than i feel completely fine and want a girlfriend. i am confident i am straight but i am not sure? help lol

I am the same way, hopefully we are not alone in this AHAH

I did stop 6 months ago every thing was fine until I went on holiday and I was on the beach and this guy and his family got talking to me and my wife we had a few beers and I just couldn't stop looking at his buldge and thinking I want to Taste his penis I had to sit there for ages as I had the biggest hardon and I even pre cumed that's one thing that's never happened to me b4 nothing happened but I can't stop wishing it had worse thing is is that my wife and his are now friends and they have asked us to go down and stay with them !! What do I do guys ?

i don't post much on forums, but i saw this thread and figured i'd share some thoughts on this. hopefully i can help out some potentially sexually confused dudes out there

so. i'm confidently straight and emotionally/physically into girls, but i often watch porn/get thoughts involving penis in some way, whether it's just penises cumming a lot, giving head, handjobs or even curiosity about bottoming.
oddly enough, any thoughts of kissing, rubbing on or doing anything with another dude's ass remains inherently undesirable to me. in fact, if i'm watching a video see anything like that, i have to skip it or look away. this may seem ridiculous, but after doing research on and off for a few years, i think that what's happening is learned-attraction to penis...not men, but just penis. i believe it's due to premature, escalated porn usage.
i know it sounds odd, but as dudes, we will almost always relate any phallic pleasure presented right back to ourselves. since we have a penis and know what it feels like, it's very easy to do. over time, you might get tired of certain types/intensities of porn, and the thought of watching something out of your realm is thrilling because it feels wrong or disgusting. giving into this urge fuels our imagination and makes us want to explore it further.
this can lead to difficulty getting it up with real partners due to warped views of sex OR because much a like a drug, your sexual tolerance is built up and adjusted to a certain habit, not to mention the sensitivity lost from the actual act of jerking off - using your own hand and your own movements to get off, don't exactly translate over to the gentle feelings and motions of a vagina/anus. over time, it can throw your brain and body off, leaving you feeling confused and unfulfilled with real partners. (sounds grim, but with moderation or breaks of abstinence, even the most damaged people can recover any physical or mental symptoms from jerking off to porn).
i remember being able to get off by just looking at a girl's profile pic when i was in middleschool and early highschool, then it began to escalate slowly. sooner or later i noticed that i needed to see girls in increasingly erotic and hardcore scenarios to get myself going, then came watching shemale porn out of curiosity and eventually some gay stuff too.
nowadays, i watch a pretty consistent amount of all 3 types depending on what kind of mood i'm in.

the more i run into these eerily homogeneous sexuality posts,the more i think that there's some sort of penis-fetish developing among straight men in the last decade or so...i'm fairly certain it's because of the high speed porn we've got now... you can look up literally anything. overstimulating and desensitizing our brains is becoming way too easy to do.
through porn, we can actually train ourselves to start liking and seeking increasingly 'shocking' content or things that just aren't indicative of our sexual orientation whatsoever; the younger you start watching, the more susceptible you are.

this is a new area in terms of mental health and is still being heavily researched. 
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for those who are worried or confused:
if most of your worries center around actually BEING gay/penis curiosity, then honestly, you're probably NOT gay; you're potentially homophobic, but not gay. it very likely stems from (escalating) porn you've watched as well as the seemingly unnatural thoughts it may have led you towards. (look up HOCD)
from what i've gathered, gay people are very EMOTIONALLY attracted to other men, not just physically. more often than not, a gay person is likely to be at terms with the fact that they're gay...at least to themselves. their fears are of the social repercussions due to their sexuality, not the actual thought of being homosexual - maybe they don't have an understanding family, maybe they're afraid of judgments from their peers. their worries lie in how they're going to come out and what the possible ramifications will be, not of the actual question about their sexual identity. if THIS is you central place of worry, then yeah it's possible that you might be gay or bisexual.
there was a period of time where i had a bit of an identity crisis with this type of thing, and what solidified my identity as straight to myself, was the realization that i don't think being gay is shameful in any way and i know that everyone in my life views it the same way. i realized that even if i were to "come out" at any given time, the reaction wouldn't be judgmental and no one would care. that's when it dawned on me that my issue was with myself - what i thought my identity was vs. what i was into porn-wise. these two things clashed together and caused confusion and shame (i noticed that every time i got close to cumming, i would never want to finish to anything on the gay side, i would feel gross and honestly kinda depressed and disconnected after. if i came while watching straight stuff, i'd feel totally fine and the sessions wouldn't last as long.)
i truly think for a significant portion of us, sexual identity issues come from or get harder to decipher with excessive porn usage. (especially if you're around age 15-35 at the time of this post).


TLDR;
if you're reading this and feel confused on where your core identity lies on the sexuality spectrum, ask yourself this: who would you rather cuddle with? makeout with? have a meaningful, intimate relationship with? wake up next to? grow alongside? there's your answer.
nothing is black and white when it comes to sexuality, and i'm definitely oversimplifying, but whichever sex you thought of first is probably the one that you're into.

also note that porn tastes do NOT define your sexuality. the only thing it defines is your curiosity.
porn is entertainment and fantasy. it shouldn't be used as an indicator of your sexuality.

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I'm the same, I'm completely straight, love having sex females. And watching straight porn, but I enjoy watching gay porn and bi porn to, I could never kiss a guy or dat one but I always fantasie about blowing another male, or jerking another male and doing other stuff. I also fantasy about transgender women and having sex with one. But as soon as I cum I feel disgusted.

hey I have read all your statements. and I am a female and I have children and with their father living with them happily, but it turns me on much seeing 2 men making love and I dont know why..

Hi I'm 69,male and have been married twice. I would masturbate with some of my mates as a teenager but later fell in love with women and thought little about those activities. In any case at that time gay sex was illegal. I can still remember how peculiar it seemed to me when I saw two men kiss in a movie.
Now, however I've been separated for 5 years and have enjoyed sex with men, particularly some hot younger ones. My appetite to try different things has also developed and I don't have hang-ups or guilt trips.

I go through Thisbe too, that's exactly how I feel sometimes, and yes I have had several gf too, and all that stuff, but instead see "straight " porn I see "gay" porn, I was very scared, b'cause I don't want to be homosexual ( no offense), but now I realize that many other people goes through this way, so I'm more relaxed, anyways I'm going to trie to se normal porn again.