Homosexual acts and homosexual relationships are two completely different things. The problem in our society is that we tend to dichotomise everything (you're either gay or straight); or we add in other concepts into these dichotomies in order to create a spectrum (you're bisexual, gay or straight or something in-between). None of this gets near to the complexity of human sexuality and our wants and needs. Historically, homosexual acts have existed for millennia BETWEEN seemingly straight men in a multitude of different sexual systems. In ancient Greece, a whole society of men constructed an army and a war system out of the sexual relationships they had with each other. Each man protected the other man that they were having sex with (this is no word of a lie). In ancient Rome, Men had wives, multiple wives and often also had men on the side that they would have sex with - often these men were slaves. The armies of Rome would return from expeditions and would often have sex with men first in celebrations, and would go home to their families and wives afterward. Women were regarded as those who would provide a family and nurture a family and create a home - men were regarded as entertainment, friendship and the fulfilment of lustful energy. In these societies there wasn't any such thing as gay or straight or bisexual or anything in between - their conceptualisation of sexuality was more communally based (more holistic); that women were the providers of family, children and a home (and thus, a relationship) and men were men together in war, in friendship and in sex.
The Christian ethic and later Victorian society has changed the way that we consider sexuality - lustful thoughts are immoral and sex for pleasure is also immoral; mainly because the Christian ethic considers that anything that is indulgent and that is not productive to society, is considered as time wasting, greedy and indolent. Due to the fact that having sex with a person of the same sex does not lead to any 'productive' outcome (i.e. there are no children borne of a gay relationship), the Christian ethic instilled in us a feeling that homosexuality is immoral on this basis.
The Western sensibility though, is clearly going through a LOT of changes and people are starting to rediscover sexuality as something that is once again, very fluid. I personally put this down to the fact that people can access pornography of any flavour completely anonymously, and people are able to indulge in those things that excite them and entice them without any social guilt whatsoever. A straight married man, can now access gay porn every night of the week without becoming 'gay', enjoy it, come over it and still have children, attend church and be a functioning 'normal' 'man' without anyone questioning his sexuality. The creation of Grindr and other apps create the same opportunities. men - straight men - are able to explore SEX without having relationships, purely sexual relations with another man, without any consequences. Yes, toilet beats existed as a primitive form of this, but in those places you had to be pretty desparate to have your penis sucked, or f**k the man p***y of a dude who might have had AIDS or was as old as your grandpa. Today, it's a veritable smorgasbord of men who are willing to do whatever a straight man wants, they're good looking and the choice provides opportunities for straight men to once again, enter that more communal world of a home with family and a relationship with a woman, and a place beyond that to explore one's sexuality and mateship with other men.
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Most men love to watch lesbian porn, but that does not make them want to have a sex change in order to experience it themselves.
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OMG THAT IS EXACTLY ME. I am completely straight and all (I'm 13) but sometimes I watch gay porn, right as I ejaculate, I'm am suddenly disgusted at what I see.
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Hi Guest
It is completely normal to be curious about seeing other guys and to be turned on by seeing their penises and two guys having sex.
Your 13 so don't worry at all why your attracted to gay porn.
The feeling of disgust is most likely that you feel it is wrong that you like gay porn
there is something you like about it and there is nothing wrong with that.
There is really no need to try and figure out why you like it just accept that sometimes you enjoy it.
Your discovering yourself and gay porn is something you like you probably have curiosities about some of your male friends as well or maybe even experimented with them or maybe would like too it doesn't matter it's just part of growing and developing.
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Your descriotion with the masturbating but afterwards woukd feel disgusted in gat stuff at all, i totally relate it nakes no sense to me. I like gay poen but after i cum i hate it. I know perfectly well that im straight and woukd never want to be in a consummate relationship with them i could never do something companionate for a guy either, meaning like clean the bathroom, do the dishes, chires etc. But women yes, i also think about having sex with girls and penetrating them, but gay porn still turns me on too. Simultaneously ill sometimes think about getting my penis sucked by a guy or blowing a guy but would never want to get penetrated that thought makes my stomach upset. In short, i think im coning to terms with not being 100% straight and truly believe that we all experiemce similar occurences in our lives.
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Your right randomly thinking of someone while masturbating will not tun you gay.
Your sexuality is predetermined and part of growing and developing is discovering ones sexuality.
Random thoughts about another guy can happen it does not mean your gay.
One day it becomes clear what your sexuality is and what gender you feel naturally attracted to.
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im lesbian and attracted romantically to women. ive had very intense romantic and sexual thoughts about women. none for men. however lesbian porn and, even worse, straight porn: i find disgusting. i only watch gay porn or male solo porn. i have tried dating a man but i got a "no homo" feeling being with him, if that makes sense. im a very feminine lesbian so not transgender. it scares me to think that i might b with a girl and i wont be able to get wet etc.
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No way man, I'm only 15 and you know its the age where one tends to get sexually curious...and I go through the same thing. You're not alone dude
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I agree with you !! The first time I had sex with a man I was 14 he was 45 I know then I was gay !! I never been with a girl !! Like all the others on here I though it was a faze but it’s not !! The 45 year old man also took my cheery boi hole turning me into his b***h as he called me I am 16 now and gay like god made me !! Porn did not turn me gay penis and a older man turn me gay !! I also believe I was born gay
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