I understand that the sounds of sex are very erotic and I'm even willing to concede that if I were in my son's position I'd probably be doing the same thing. I've also resigned myself to the fact that he's probably doing more than just listening and I get that too. I don't think any differently of him or blame him for it, I just wish I didn't know about it. It's such an intimate and personal thing and I find it so hard to just let go and allow myself to become undignified knowing that I have an audience. I find myself wondering what he must think of his father and I after hearing us essentially reduced to animals. Are we still mummy and daddy? Now that he's seen that other side to us? I have so many mixed emotions about this. We left it until 11pm last night. I checked on both boys on my way to bed, then got up and double checked. I was sure they were asleep, but proceeded with caution anyway. We started off slow, taking our time to minimise the squeak of the bed and I kept my mouth closed as best I could. Hubby settled into a rhythm and as we got into it, I started to feel more relaxed, and even a little naughty, as if we were getting away with something we're not supposed to be doing, hehe. Then the footsteps came, ugh! What do I do? Sacrifice my orgasm or just ignore it? In the end I chose the latter and for the first time I can recall, I actually felt kind of liberated by it. I know he heard me, but it just didn't seem like such a big deal anymore. That is, until I woke up this morning. Now I'm left feeling guilty and like a bad mother for allowing my son to hear that. I wish I wasn't so conflicted about this and could learn to relax and just get over it. My son's obviously not bothered by it if he keeps wanting to listen in, so why am I?
After thought... would it really be so bad if I was to do nothing and just continue having sex with my husband at night, regardless of the footsteps in the hallway? Just pretend I don't know? :/
I enjoy it too
How old are you and what have you heard?
I don’t know if it’s normal but I definitely get aroused when I hear them. I’ve only heard them twice but kinda hope they do it more often which sometimes I feel guilty of...
I'd say just leave it alone. Most kids do it so just let him enjoy it. I remember listening in on my mom. I couldn't help masturbating to her sex moans!
Yes I hear my parents too.
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Most of the time you heard them they were well aware. They also got turned on by being heard!
Are you saying this as a parent yourself who has experienced these things?
I loved the intensity of the sex. Hearing my mum moaning and gasping, wincing and whimpering, panting and yelping. Hard and fast wet slapping sounds. The bed squeaking faster and louder, headboard knocking up against the wall and then almost like a scream from my mum and my dad started grunting and groaning. I would deliberately go to bed early on Saturday nights so they thought I was asleep, but then stay up in my room so I could listen in.
Would you masturbate while they were having sex?
Absolutely! Sometimes I even got a pair of mum's dirty panties out the wash basket to stroke with
You're perfect, no matter what you are into. Take advantage of this because it will all stop when you move. I'd try taking it a little further and make it more exciting for you.
Completely normal and healthy. Be honest with yourself, always. You're very unique and special. I am looking for this sort of girl to marry.
You're a normal person, everyone has different sexual interests. If it's not hurting anyone then it's fine to imagine. You are lucky to be so honest this young.