I've recently realized I don't experience sex like other women... I mean, it's not like I don't feel anything, but it's almost like I can't bring myself to care. I could be throwing myself into it, or just lying there and it makes no difference to my low level of pleasure. I have never experienced an orgasm from sex, but it still doesn't bother me because even when I masturbate and orgasm, the orgasm itself isn't a big deal. It's almost like my mind doesn't care and can't get with it, and my body goes through it for me. It's not that I don't feel ANYTHING, it's just that what I feel doesn't seem... worthwhile for the effort. I experience arousal, I can orgasm, but it's pointless because it doesn't do anything for me.
I've always thought that it was just everyone over hyping sex, that that's the way it actually is. But recently I've realized it's just me. My level of pleasure, even with guys I know logically are giving me great sex, is exactly the same as with a guy who doesn't know what they're doing. Meaning, virtually non existent.
Basically my pleasure, regardless of circumstance and including orgasm, on a scale of 1-10 peaks about a 2 or 3.
Can anyone tell me if they've experienced this? Or what this could be? I'm young, 20 years old, and can't enjoy sex...
have lots of foreplay and have some more time make it with sensation
I can't help but compeltely understand- just so you know you're not alone! I've only ever had one proper orgasm with a guy and it was through oral, clotiris stimulation (sorry to be graphic!) and it took a long time no booze, during the day so not tired- may help). Oh and I'm in my late 20's.
Keep looking, I'm sure there're answers out there...
Keep looking, I'm sure there're answers out there...