Hey;
ive lost my virginity, and ive had sex quite with the same boy alot now, and i still dont get any pleasure.
He has a rather normal sized penis around 7inch but he dont pleasure me?
i need abit of advice please
ive lost my virginity, and ive had sex quite with the same boy alot now, and i still dont get any pleasure.
He has a rather normal sized penis around 7inch but he dont pleasure me?
i need abit of advice please
it could be the guy
You failed to mention your ages. Young people who feel that they have to have sex usually have little to no experience at all and have no idea how to control their sexual feelings. The length of bf's penis has nothing to do with whether you feel excited or not, the excitability should begin way before actual intercourse. Loosing your virginity is a big deal and until you can focus on the way your body reacts, as well as his, you will not be able to experience a pleasurable interlude. Get in touch with the signals that your body sends you, if he is doing something that feels really nice, ask him to continue what he's doing at that time. I hope you and bf are using a form of protection.
This may seem like a very awkward question but... have you taken the time to explore your own body?
Everything is a hell of a lot easier(for both you AND your partner) when you yourself know what "spots" trigger you.
Also chemistry has a huge effect on the sex itself. If you and your partner don't mesh right, the sex might not be good either. Where as if you have a passion(whether it be lust or love) for your man, everything, from his breath on your skin, to his eyes locked on yours will give you tingly feelings all over. You should start feeling sexually excited waaaaaaay before they actual "sex" takes place, like when he's kissing you, or touching your skin.
If you feel weird about doing it yourself, try having him touch you, and when he reaches a point that makes you go, "Ah!" Have him do it again.
Reaching the point of when you're sexually in sync takes time with any partner. Once you guys really get the rhythm of it, things should go smoothly.
GOOD LUCK
Everything is a hell of a lot easier(for both you AND your partner) when you yourself know what "spots" trigger you.
Also chemistry has a huge effect on the sex itself. If you and your partner don't mesh right, the sex might not be good either. Where as if you have a passion(whether it be lust or love) for your man, everything, from his breath on your skin, to his eyes locked on yours will give you tingly feelings all over. You should start feeling sexually excited waaaaaaay before they actual "sex" takes place, like when he's kissing you, or touching your skin.
If you feel weird about doing it yourself, try having him touch you, and when he reaches a point that makes you go, "Ah!" Have him do it again.
Reaching the point of when you're sexually in sync takes time with any partner. Once you guys really get the rhythm of it, things should go smoothly.
GOOD LUCK