I am still a virgan but my boyfriend and i are talking about having sex. He has put his fingers in my vaginal opening and at first the pain was HORRIBLE! But now it doesnt hurt you just have to get used to it i think.
I lost my virginity a few days ago,
it was hurting loads at first, cudnt get it in so i let him go on top.
i relaxed a bit more then and let him do the work then the pain was over and done with. i was bleeding quite alot and was still bleeding a little for a few days after.
I dont know if he actually got all the way in cuz he stopped as the condom was too small for him so it was hurting him a bit and also he didnt want it to split as i have only been on the pill for 1 day.
better safe than sorry i spose :/
Hopefully it wont hurt next time tho, and hopefully it wont bleed :S
x
it was hurting loads at first, cudnt get it in so i let him go on top.
i relaxed a bit more then and let him do the work then the pain was over and done with. i was bleeding quite alot and was still bleeding a little for a few days after.
I dont know if he actually got all the way in cuz he stopped as the condom was too small for him so it was hurting him a bit and also he didnt want it to split as i have only been on the pill for 1 day.
better safe than sorry i spose :/
Hopefully it wont hurt next time tho, and hopefully it wont bleed :S
x
i lost my virginity a couple days ago...and im still spotting a little, and it hurts like hellll when ever i have to pee, can somebody help meee? i have no idea whyy! it stings like craaaazyyyyy.
Hey uhm actually I'm 18 and also a female. Nd I just lost my virginity with my boyfreind. And it hurt like hell :'( and yes it is normal to bleed a lot. I had a lot of blod :O like I couldn't stop it. It was so embaRrasing. But we stopd to clean it. Unfourtntly blood did get on the cover sheets but we used peroxid water nd scrubd it off. ... We waited almost 40min, and we went at it again. Only this time it was more painfull -_- anddd I still kept on bleeding. I don't know if its normal or not ... Any suggestionss?? Help :/
Well, I'm 16 and My boyfriend and I had sex last night, for the first time. I have to say, the pain was almost unbarable! I actually cried.. which is saying smething because I have a high pain tolerance. After a little bit, it got easier.. it still hurt reeeeeeally really bad but it was less than when we first started. We used a lubricated condom, but no lube.. definately going to next time. There was some blood, but very little.. I'm actually confused a little.. I've heard that some people actually feel their cherry pop.. I didn't feel a pop, it just hurt really bad..and there was blood.. so does that mean it did pop or it didnt? i just want to know if i should prepare for the same amount of pain again.. we were going to try again today but i was sore and needed time to heal. ?
see i know everyone says that you bleed for days when you lose your virginity and that it hurts like a mother but im 18 and ive been having sex for 2 years had multiple partners with all different sizes of penises and when i first lost mine i never bled at all but it did hurt really bad for a few hours so my sister told me that maybe he didnt pop my cherry but its been 2 years and i still never bled so idk if everyone is suspose to bleed or what
it's normal for you to be bleeding afterwards because your cherry has popped. i bled afterwards for about 3 or 4 days, it was just like a period. & yes, it killed me too, i was in so much pain it only lasted about 20 seconds. & to say you tried it the next day, notachance i'd of done that as i was still sore which is probably why you couldn't hack it. & no, it didn't even hurt the second time i had it. me and my boyfriend split up after we had it because i just didn't want it again it hurt that bad, so obviously he didn't love me because he finished me, so about 8 months later i did it a second time with my current boyfriend, this was about a year ago, and it didn't hurt one bit. i was so suprised, because he is bigger than who i lost it too! dont worry :-)
anonymous wrote:
its not being afraid of having sex, dumb*ss.
Its wanting to be informed.
People like you who go on websites purely
to make fun of other people because you're so bored with
your own pathedic lives should get the f*ck off this planet.
its people like you that deserve to die virgins.
have a nice day
wat a bloody chick u r.??
u r so fraid of havin sex
peopl like u should
f**k OFF
so just get d hell out of tis world
its not being afraid of having sex, dumb*ss.
Its wanting to be informed.
People like you who go on websites purely
to make fun of other people because you're so bored with
your own pathedic lives should get the f*ck off this planet.
its people like you that deserve to die virgins.
have a nice day
Well I never thought a virgin could get pregnant until it happened to me! I hav been always scared of sex! I got married and divorced because of this! My new boyfriend and I just fool around and he ejaculates by the opening of my vagina! I missed my period and took a pregnancy test and its positive! Now we tried real hard and I broke the hymen and it bleed heavily with even some clots! I am wondering if I should go to a doctor because I am afraid of any doctor pushing their finger inside me! I still haven't had sex! I'm still scared like hell! but i want to keep this baby because I am 38 years old! I am scared of having it because my vagina is real tiny and i am so afraid! i've never been abused as a child or any thing. i just don't know why i am always so scared! I need help!
i'm 21 years old i'm married about 4 days i'm really nervous of losing my virginty the first night i really really shocked i even made my husband nervous
we treid acouple of times but i'm still the same nothing is working out just ahorible pain and i can't stand on that i told my partner to stop it but he said no and i run away from my home and my patner and liveing with freinds i really love my husband and want to have with sex but i hate that pain please help me plse
this is so strange because it sounds exactly the same as my first time!!!!! i bled EVERYWHERE and stained his carpet because i stood up, and it was all down my thighs, all the way down to my feet there was so much blood, and i wanted to cry to but i was dry sobbing!! its sounded like he was trying to rape me or something i was so noisy because it hurt so much!!! he didnt force it in, we did it at a slow pace ... but oh god the pain is awful i totally get you ... its so much worse then what people say it is .. i cant even describe it .. it was the most painful thing ive ever done.
when i had my first sex i didnt experience bleeding..is it normal??? my boyfrnd have a doubt on me that im not a virgin because im not bleeding on my 1st sex with him..plss reply
Hi all
Reading all the story seems me that you all are going to make man ridiculous. I am 30 yrs old man and have had 2 divorce because of this unnecessary rumor. Think in this world how many couples are enjoying for having sex. Sex is sex and it is natural. I am very surprised man also feel pain first time because of foreskin stretched but every man tolerate why it is happening for girls only, I do not understand. My suggestion is do intimacy to your loved one without having fear of any pain, its always a brain thinking that you will get pain that will make adverse effect or just do virgin through out your life.
Reading all the story seems me that you all are going to make man ridiculous. I am 30 yrs old man and have had 2 divorce because of this unnecessary rumor. Think in this world how many couples are enjoying for having sex. Sex is sex and it is natural. I am very surprised man also feel pain first time because of foreskin stretched but every man tolerate why it is happening for girls only, I do not understand. My suggestion is do intimacy to your loved one without having fear of any pain, its always a brain thinking that you will get pain that will make adverse effect or just do virgin through out your life.
Yeah Im 18 and a virgin, I tried with a guy but I was too tight. He couldnt fully penetrate me and Just a little was too painful. I just want to have sex and get it over with already! haha everyone says they love it but still to this day I bleed a bit with a finger, I cannot imagine a penis.
Hi,
I'm also 18, and lost my virginity a few nights ago. It was extremely painful and I'm not sure it's even 100% broken yet, because when I put a finger up there the morning after to see it, still hurt like there might be some hymen still there. There was only a little bit of blood, and lots of discharge - I'm not sure how though, aren't you only supposed to do that when you orgasm? Which didn't happen. >.< I didn't feel any pleasure at all from the actual sex, it took a while to get it in, his penis was like 8 inches, and I'm a very small person. Pain! D: Once the initial pain was gone I just had to lay back and take the moderate pain until it was over - there was no way I could have got pleasure from it! My very 'knowledgable' friend told me that it just gets better from here - I hope so, because I want to get better. Apparently he enjoyed it, so that's okay. But I kinda want to enjoy sex.